to refuse to understand someone's polite refusal only because you love him / her (and you put your feelings above anything) or to enjoy the feelings of someone you don't like (just for the sake of being liked by him / her)?
2007-01-06 00:51:26 · 15 answers · asked by ♫Pavic♫ 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
mmmmm...I am no psycologist but both seem more destructive than anything...To be in love with someone and not accept their refusal to return the same...that, is self destructive...
How can you enjoy...feelings of anyone...you dont actually like??..
definitely, destructive to all involved....
I dont see...selfish...I see, harm....
2007 is a new year perhaps the best time to begin again for you..
Good luck with your new life...
2007-01-06 01:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by ozzy chik... 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
refuse to understand y someone loves u is kinda harsh but i gues if u want nufin 2 do with them then its just selfish.
being liked by some one u dont lik is a great feeling=] but thats pretty harsh right ther 2, u have to think about the person who liks u even if u dont lik him/her.
2007-01-06 08:59:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 refuse 2 understand!!!
i'd choose 2b w/someone who likes me...
coz it hurts 2 bad when u dnt get d same luv u exert & give...
2007-01-06 08:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by 2D1iLuV 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy the feelings of someone you don't like...
thats the worst thing to do and ofcours more selfish!
2007-01-06 08:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything
2007-01-06 08:53:16 · answer #5 · answered by Hi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive alwayz felt therz no harm in being selfish.. as long as u are not hurting sum1... or the other person is not hurting u... therz no harm in whtever u feel...
hehe :)
2007-01-06 08:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
both are very selfish but i will choose the first one
2007-01-06 09:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the second one is more selfish!
2007-01-06 08:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by funmzire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Door number two.
2007-01-06 12:47:56 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think both are just as selfish as eachother
2007-01-06 08:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by whitesnake 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋