can a guy control an erection before he has it?, I mean, can he stop having an erection because of social rules (ex. he is in a public place) or is it just a reflex that you can't control by your self?.
2007-01-06 00:49:32 · 9 answers · asked by amajerk 2 in Health ➔ Men's Health
Its not something we can always control. I just turned 40, and I still get erections out of the blue. Even though I'm not thinking anything sexual.
2007-01-06 02:40:29 · answer #1 · answered by Brian F 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not easy to do. First you have clear your mind of what is stimulating you. Aversion is not easy and not thinking about what it is that is arousing you is very hard (no pun intended).
Maybe is you looking at something that excites you, you could look away and try to think of something else, such as a baseball game you saw or some recent event that bothered you etc. But the trick is to think of something else. In aversion you would instead of seeing what excites you as pleasant or inviting, you would see it as something terrible and discussing, but then you would run the risk of always seeing it that way and be turned off when you really wanted to enjoy it. So the best thing is just to try to avoid things by not thinking about them or looking away etc. The mind is the most powerful sex object you have and once you can control it then you can control your self.
2007-01-06 01:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, definitely. But it takes practice. Remember your mind is the control center for your body, not your penis. Relaxation methods (some yoga techniques maybe) are a good place to start in learning control over the body. You can learn to control your reflexes, even your heart rate.
2007-01-06 01:01:07 · answer #3 · answered by runningdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mind is the source of the desire which causes the erection. If you can keep your mind off of the "trigger", I think you can sometimes avoid getting an erection. There are, however, those times when it will just happen, especially when you're younger. And once it starts, it's not so easy to "turn it off".
2007-01-06 00:53:41 · answer #4 · answered by so far north 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The mind controls the penis & the mind is hard to control at times. All guys i know have had uninvited erections that have caused much embarrasement.
2007-01-06 00:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Mishell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the past, I could not control them. My wife would purposely touch me anywhere in the grocery store & I'd spring to attention. She thought it was funny!
Now I can control them by what I think about.
2007-01-06 01:34:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
erm... of course not... erection is a type of reflex and cannot b controlled... =)
2007-01-06 03:16:33 · answer #7 · answered by Bryant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try to divert your attention on things other than that.. or anything that could trigger or Stimulate you in that case..
2007-01-06 00:59:28 · answer #8 · answered by jenny D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i to be honest dont think is something most of them have a control of.....
2007-01-06 00:55:05 · answer #9 · answered by starlight♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋