i dont like black men. does that make me racist? its not due to their colour.?

Question

i like black women. its most black men i have met are not very nice. and they tend to treat women like 'ho's and regard them as their 'bitches'. oh and they love anal sex.

charles i have specified my reasons.
that cheeky lad

charles i have specified my reasons.
that cheeky lad

spiralling- yeah most asian men are retards. they dont respect white women. they only use them for sex and then run home to their asian wives. oh yeah and they will do stuff with white women which they could only dream of with their asian wives. they treat white women as trash.

duisend- yes you will not marry, sleep with black men because they will demand anal. not good.

Answer 1

All humans suffer from denial. Which makes them make
excuses, and blame and justify. So any observation a white makes is racist!
But tough love and confrontation is what is needed to overcome denial.
Blacks in the U.S. have been beaten down badly. And that has created what I call a psychological backlash. Now
that they have freedoms, they are becoming the aggressors. Of course it is all justified in the minds of
those that are that way. (Not all Blacks are self-destructive).
But today, many Blacks treat their own worse than any
whites do. And they need to stop taking it out on each
other, and channel that angry energy into something
positive!
Anal sex is of course not about sexual pleasure. It's sado-masochism. Power and control.

Answer 2

what is it due to then?

if i'm honest, i am more weary of asian men than british. but i mean that exactly how i say it, a british guy of asian descent is still british. but if a guy has an asian accent i wonder where he comes from and how he values women. some cultures have very negative attitudes towards women, especially western women. i only found this out from a couple of bad experiences with asian men, so i suppose it doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure out why i am this way... but it does annoy me that i think this way, recently i nearly missed out on having one of the best conversations of 2006 because the guy was indian. so it's something i have to work on, and fine tune.
the reason i mention these things is maybe they apply to you? is it a cultural difference that you feel you can't come to grips with? (although being black, you could be from anywhere.its not like being polish) and do you mind that you feel this way? or does it not bother you at all? sorry, i hate people that answer questions with questions....

Answer 3

No, I don't think that you are a racist, Everyone of us has our own views and feelings about what we find attractive in other human beings. Just because you don't fancy black men does not make you a racist, however if you are rude and aggressive towards this group of people then you need to look at yourself and remember that all human beings are living breathing creatures who love, reproduce and die no differently to anyone else regardless of their colour

I have just read your additional comments and have to say, I still don't think you are a racist but you are definately immature and need to grow up a bit.

Answer 4

I have met nice black men and some not so nice black men. That can be said about any race of people. I think that you are stereotyping based on prior experience.
Stay neutral....continue trying to meet all types of people. I am sure that you will be happy that you did.

Answer 5

Then the only way for someone to say for sure if you are racist is for you to tell us what it is you do not like about black people. Mind, you prolly are still a racist, but maybe not. It depends on your exact reasons.
--Charles, That Cheeky Lad

Answer 6

You may think you are not a racist, but you do what racists do.
You translate an experience with or a rumor about a LIMITED NUMBER of black men into a general opinion or generalization that includes ALL black men.

Answer 7

Just because a few Black men has done things you do not consider Kosher does not mean all black men are the same. I personally would not marry, sleep or have sex with a black man but that is just my choice.

Answer 8

No, it does not make you a racist. I don't like black men either. I have a best friend called Savannah, and she's black, but I don't like black men, and I think it is wrong to mix race. Don't worry, lots of people feel the same way as you.

Answer 9

If you mean you're not physically attracted to them, no, that does not make you racist. You have no control over who you are sexually or physically attracted to, it's hardwired into who we are. For the same reason that you might have a thing for latin accents or the high cheek bones of some nationalities, you are naturally not attracted to certain traits and nationalities as well.

It's not racist, it's hormonal. However, if you mean in general don't like and it has nothing to do with physical attraction, then you'd have to be more specific, because I'd be leaning towards racism without a better explanation.


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Edit: After reading your additional details, no you're not racist. You're a narrow minded bigot who catagorizes and stereotypes. Feel better?

Answer 10

Its due to their attitude right? Black people say whites are racists because we don't like being bullied by blacks who act all gangster but on the other hand black people don't like blacks who are well mannered, well spoken, well educated they think they are acting to white. SOME black people drive me up the wall because of their "White people are out to get me attitudes." We don't make them sell drugs, we don't MAKE them do anything but yet they blame us for everything that is wrong with their own society. In my opinion 70 percent of all black people want a free ride. But that's only my opinion.