we broke up w/out knowing that im pregnant.
my baby is 8 months old and he still wants to see her.
her current gf is pestering me but he does'nt do anything about that.
he keeps on promising us that he will return and take the responsibilities he ignored for a very long time.
just recently we fought bec. he blamed us for their break-up which really pissed every inch of me.
my ex bf (the one before him),wants us to get back together,
but the father of my baby doesnt want to.
what shall i do?is he still interested with us?does he keep on promising so i will be the one to give up
2007-01-06 00:43:06 · 6 answers · asked by Shirley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is interested with you. Think about the future.... think and decide
2007-01-06 00:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by horizon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, actions speak louder than words. If a person is saying one thing but doing another, they are doing what they want to do.
I know that it is hard to have a child with someone and they don't want anything to do with you or the baby. Get over it!! Get over him!!! Get your head on straight and think about your priorities. Don't waste your time on "promises". "Promises" don't keep you warm at night. "Promises" don't feed the baby when it's hungry. Don't waste anymore time on this. I know it hurts, but get over it. Cry, do what you have to do, and get on with your life. Right now you need to think about "long" term and what is the "best" thing for you and your baby. There are sooo many factors that come into play with this. You just have to listen to what your heart is telling you to do. Your child has every right to be supported by her father. Take him to court and make him support his child. There are too many "dead beat" dads around. That is one thing that you CAN make him do. Do not feel you are being mean, being mean is not taking care of your blood. The baby has a right to be taken care of by her biological father. He should have thought about that before he got you pregnant.
2007-01-06 08:55:37 · answer #2 · answered by supersweetfungal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was going to he would have way before now. I mean what's the hold up? If you like this other guy, I would date him. Maybe you will find love there. But don't settle for anything less then love. God bless!
2007-01-06 08:47:46 · answer #3 · answered by lilmama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your baby's father has the right to see his child. As for which guy you should be with, that's up to you. It doesn't sound like your baby's father wants to be with you, he only wants to spend time with his child. Be careful, don't use your child to get him back, you'll only get hurt again!
2007-01-06 08:50:02 · answer #4 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, it's just a promise. promises are meant to be broken. if he promised things like that, atleast he should give you reasons to believe him.
2007-01-06 08:48:26 · answer #5 · answered by amor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgetaboutit. He lost interest in you 2 minutes after he made his sperm deposit. Do you swallow?
2007-01-06 09:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by BUM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋