What is the my best thing to do, talk to him (my boss)personally or just I will send him an email asking why he is not contented with my work?
2007-01-06 00:34:02 · 14 answers · asked by eneleh 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment
always think positive.....
you're shy because you feel all the attention is on you all the time. You feel that everyone around is aware and critical of every move you make - or at least most of the time........
SWITCH IT!!..........
/you need to put the focus on them/him in your mind.........in your mind, look at his suit - do you like it? No? Go over in your mind what colour would suit him best whilst face to face with him.....
instead of thinking, 'what is he thinking of me?', ask yourself, 'what do I think of him?' In your mind, judge him according to what you feel. If he's a good boss, think, 'you're a good boss, I can talk to you'.............
you're human and so is he....................he's just figured out this kind of stuff before you!!
Always walk tall, keep eye contact, smile, nod two or three times if you agree with something, BELIEVE in your head that you are respected by everyone and you derserve the respect you give.....................finally......................GO SPEAK TO HIM!!!
2007-01-06 00:46:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would e-mail to request a meeting with him and then go in and air your concerns. By looking at your previous questions, it looks like he is just looking for an excuse not to give you a rise. If this is the case then I would ask for specific cases where he has not been happy with your work. By rights, he should have made you aware of this before now if he was so unhappy. If you did not know of this, you could be forgiven for thinking that he was happy with your work. If you work for a large company and you are not satisfied with the outcome of the meeting, you could escalate it to a higher member of management. If he is THE boss then you may be struggling. Stand your ground, I am sure he will think more of you after that!
2007-01-06 00:48:12 · answer #2 · answered by nooka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with monkeyman's answer. Because all u need is positive results and if u simply go in to talk to your boss; it might not just be the right timing. But a hand written letter may give your boss the chance to think through the issue before he can give his next word. U never know your polite approach might make things work for the better.
2007-01-06 00:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by seesunsuf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be a face to face meeting. If you are concerned about the content of the discussion write yourself some notes such as.........you have said you are not content with my work and I would like you to tell me precisely which area(s) need to be improved upon, What do I need to do to raise my level to your expectations? What training or developmental opportunities are available to me to raise my performance to the required standard? Perhaps we should agree some objectives which I can be measured against and review in three months time?
2007-01-09 07:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah we're all thinking alike on this one. I know you're a little shy but this is a situation where you're going to have to suck it up and have a sit down. Be pleasant but don't beat around the bush. Ask for specifics and what he would like you to do about these issues and vise versa. If he's any kind of supervisor at all he'll be honest and objective with you, and will remain pleasant as long as you do.
Good luck to you.
2007-01-06 00:45:39 · answer #5 · answered by Ricky J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Face to face even if you are shy, at least you took the hard way over the easy way (email) which people respect especially if they know you are shy. Also things can sound wrong via email.
2007-01-06 00:49:07 · answer #6 · answered by linbash_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be genuine, Let him know by the look in your eye you mean business and give him a sense your willing to meet at a professional level,because you take your job seriously.
2007-01-06 00:47:24 · answer #7 · answered by JACK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always think that people respect you more if you have the courage to speak to there face, i was once did this and i was worried about the repercussions but the boss respected me more for saying something
2007-01-06 00:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
always face to face, you can see the expressions on his/her face to see if they are telling you the truth . If you e-mail they can always ask somone elses advice before answering you. When you go in be prepared for almost anything, look confident and he/she will respect you
2007-01-06 00:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by leetm@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't email, bad way to communicate and the wrong message could be taken. just ask to see him, take a coffee in and be relaxed. just ask him and you'll feel so much better afterwards
2007-01-06 00:36:33 · answer #10 · answered by gigi s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋