2007-01-05 23:38:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Dear Friend, I can understand your deep concern for your boyfriend - the fear expressed by you is the manifestation of deep love, which you have for him.
You have to counsel him and show him the value of getting a good placement and thereby the wonders of subsequent life based upon that. I am sure once you talk to him elaborately on the need of studying and getting a good placement and the xepected gains and smoothness with which the future can unfold, he will definitely understand.
In real life career is almost as important as love is and in the absence of any of these - life becomes a strugle instead of enjoyment.
I am sure your love will prevail upon him to understand that importance of career and the subtle relationship between Career and Love.
All the Best for a Lovely and Successful Life to Both of You
2007-01-05 23:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Akshat Mehta Panjab University 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then, I think he do not observe the see-around-facts, if there is no good study for one now in this world. And you yourself fearing in advance that he wont get any placement. It shows that you are either so much attached with his welfare or may be this is you who need some tips in the name of some one's mask. If it is the former, I want to ask you one question, could you drink water to quench some one's thirst and eat for some one's hunger to subside and SEE THROUGH YOUR EYES FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR BOY FRIEND'S VISUAL EXPERIENCE? NEVER. Even God can never help or give any solutions for the one who is unwilling to change. And you cannot consume anything for someone's ailment or adamency, it would be ridiculous! Please concentrate on your studies and activities rather on others. Because others are others and may seperate or be seperated by the almighty at any time as our fore father's timely/untimely departures. Alas, we come in single and go in single. Confuse not your life with other's complaints. At the most you can help him/others, that too if they ask for, and NEVER CAN AVERT THEIR FATE BY YOUR FORCE!
2007-01-06 20:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by yozenbalki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may either be reacting to stress (avoidance behavior) or he is truly not interested in advancing himself. If it is the first reason, then he needs reassurance and not more anxiety. Use psychology. Tell him he is more than capable and that you believe in him. But if he seems just too lazy to care, find another man.
2007-01-06 07:48:37 · answer #3 · answered by Isis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. This thing bring his interest. Ask him if he is interested in you...then he has to focus on studies. For better future in life with you.
2007-01-06 09:56:34 · answer #4 · answered by Dumboo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to study because you dont want to date a person who pumps gas for a living...
2007-01-06 07:41:12 · answer #5 · answered by eonetiller 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to blackmail him emotionally. Simply tell him that you would quit his life if he is not serious in studies and future career.
2007-01-06 08:13:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just fix him to a achievement, thats like the placement.
U must pushing to him achievement is one & only ur hands
2007-01-06 09:52:01 · answer #7 · answered by Priyan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start tutions that say ''specially dedicated and decided 4 my bf'' anyways im jokin its better 4 u to study well n he'll decide his way by looking at u and if he is really concerned for his place ment n specially ''YOU'' then he will himself do well! gdlk!
2007-01-06 07:42:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him n find a new bf. in the mean time worry about ur own studies
2007-01-06 07:49:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just go tell him very patiently how much you are concerned about him , just make him realize the fact that ur relationship depends very much upon his future so placements are very much important for him ,you and your relationship , im sure he will make efforts in realizing his destiny
ps- he is very lucky in having you as his girlfriend
2007-01-06 07:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋