She has lots of admirers especially through work and many of these guys she keeps secret from me.
2007-01-05 23:38:04 · 13 answers · asked by michael 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
this is just wrong.......maybe she's at it with all of them behind your back too?
2007-01-05 23:40:44 · answer #1 · answered by Roxley x 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it takes other guys fancying your girl to turn you on, i would say you have no feelings for her. If you felt anything for her you would not need the help of others fancying her to turn you on. Sorry if this is not the answer you looking for. And she is in the wrong if she is keeping secrets from you regards these men, I don't think either of you want this relationship.
2007-01-06 02:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by Eunice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even bother analysing it. If you are comfortable with the situation, where's the harm. Just don't moan if it all goes wrong on you.
We women are always aware when men fancy us, but if we play up to everyone of them, someone gets hurt.
How do you know, if she is keeping them a secret from you?
Whoops sorry, that's a question, not an answer.
Anyway, you don't seem to be upset and you like being turned on so...
2007-01-06 22:50:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she keep them secret or just not notice that she has admirers?
I think you could be with her more as a status symbol tho instead of because you like her! Like if you were 50+ and she is 20- and you like to be seen with her?
So is this fair? On you or her?
2007-01-06 00:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by kiku 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are on the verge of losing your girlfriend to someone else - if you love her then look for alternative ways to turn you on,also in my opinion keeping secret is not good for a relationship.Try and talk things over with your girl
2007-01-05 23:46:03 · answer #5 · answered by wise5557 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typical of a guy that views a girl as an ornament and a reflection of his own manliness.
2007-01-05 23:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's OK I sometimes imagine a bloke making love to my wife, Its a turn-on. Its a fantasy that's all, I know it wont happen, most people have fantasies.
2007-01-05 23:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by 90210 aka Hummer Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a turn on because out of all the guys your girlfriend has chosen she has chosen you and you just know you have a hot gf :)
2007-01-05 23:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Sammy T 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
that's OK until one of these guys turns on your girl Friend
2007-01-05 23:42:10 · answer #9 · answered by star ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how u feel in a gentle but firm way. if she persist, u might need to think of moving on.
2007-01-05 23:46:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unusual but it's not wrong, you are either silly or have a very good trusting relationship.
2007-01-06 02:15:24 · answer #11 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋