Hey all
I am 15 n i am dating a 19 year old i was wondering wat u guys would have to say about it. Is it ok or do u think that it is wrong? My mom gives her permission for us 2 date as long as she know where i am by law i am not allowed to date him till i am 18 but with permission by pareant/s u are allowed to date a person that is over 18. Can u guys give tell me wat u think please? Thank you
Cass_030_791@yahoo.com
2007-01-05 23:32:23 · 14 answers · asked by Cass 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey all
I am a 15 girl dating a 19 y.o guy we are not doing anything sexual i am still a virgin i told him i wanted to wait till i was married to have sex n he respects that. my mom is ok with us dating coz she knows how i feel about sex. I was wondering if anyone could tell me the law of dating anyone under 18 in Victoria? Also could u tell me wat u think about me dating a 19 y.o?
2007-01-06 00:40:16 · update #1
It is not illegal for the 19 yo to date you. It is illegal for the two of you to have sex.
Be prepared, in some states if you turn up pregnant, your babies father will end up a life long registered sex offender and will probably do jail time. Is that what you want?
Your mom should be smacked. You are in no way ready to date a 19 y.o. guy. He is dealing with adult problems and you should be enjoying the last few years of your childhood.
There is no way my daughter will ever date a guy 4 years older than she.
2007-01-05 23:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Gem 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do not know the law in other countrys but in the states there is no law that saws you have to wait until you are 18 to state someone.
If it is a law then your parents are breaking it. It would be just the same if your parents said you could have a beer. The age to drink is 21 and 21 no matter what. Your parents can't say its ok for you to have one. Same with dating.
In most states the age of consent is either 15 or 16. Which means you can date him and unless your parents what to take it to court there is not much then can do legal to keep him away from you.
Do I think a 15 year old should be dating a 19 year old.? I do not have one answer for that. SOme times it comes down to the 15 year old and 19 year. If we are talking about sex, then NO I do not think a 15 year old should be dating and having sex with anyone, no matter there age.
You also have to know that sometimes 19 year olds are in a different place then most 15 year old in their maturity level. So I would worry about that 19 year old taking the 15 to places (In life) that they are not ready for.
I do wish you all the luck and happyness in your quest for answers and hope I helped a little.
2007-01-06 00:16:01 · answer #2 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wanna say go for it if its real! but i would have found that an awkward and strange relationship a month ago but now being in the exact same situation i find myself rethinking my view... I've been entranced by this girl thats 15 when i came on a blind double date with my best friend and it just so happen she was exactly my type which really sucks because she knows her parents would never allow it, so after 3 secret dates of getting really close we somewhat mutually decided not to continue an intimate relationship because of the lack of direction. If only that was the end... I some how managed to create some love triange with her best friend which was 18 and was with my best friend when I met the girl i have feelings for :S. I dont feel anywhere near the same for her as I do for the first girl but nothing can be done to make the relationship work : ( This wont help you but it helps me I'm just confused and I needed to know if there were more people in the similar situations and too tell my stupid story. Thanks and good luck.
2007-01-08 11:25:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would not my 15 year old daughter date, let alone date a 19 year old,that is a big age difference for your age, when you are older and an adult then 4 years isn't much.
2007-01-06 00:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by Urchin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a law on dating?? wow.
on you dating a 19yearold guy, i think it really depends on you. people may not have the same standards as you do but what i can say is, once you feel that something is wrong, act upon it.
and don't get too ahead of yourself. 15 is still not the end of the world so don't act like it is when something goes wrong.
wish you two the best of luck!:)
2007-01-06 00:43:14 · answer #5 · answered by empathy_911 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should be dating someone in your same age range .. like 16 or something ... 19 seems like old , and he might be doing stuff that isn't appropriate for you ... beside, last thing you need is to be a teenage mom ... so be careful
2007-01-05 23:38:14 · answer #6 · answered by Luay14 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom can give her consent to the two of you dating, but not to statuatory rape. Hopefully you're not sexually active with him. If he doesn't think it's a big deal, he should check out the National Sex Offender Registry and imagine his pic/profile being among those people.
2007-01-05 23:37:56 · answer #7 · answered by Preston 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not date anyone over 17. Wait til you're 18 to date older guys.
2007-01-05 23:35:27 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this sounds fine and proper, personally. A lot of people could rush to judgement, however. If you have things worked out and thinks are okay with the law and your parent, then don't listen to those people.
2007-01-06 02:45:48 · answer #9 · answered by Joe C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your person is still being formed and his is much farther along. It is easy for you to foul things up at this age. You are still, "jail bait" and there is a reason for that. You are not able to protect yourself because you don't have the knowledge and experience you must have to be safe.
2007-01-05 23:37:04 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋