should i be my true self with my partner (iam quite patient and forgiving by nature) or should show attitude,throw tantrums and eep my partner on toes?the problem is my friends say if iam being my true self he'll take me for granted and that i should act smart with him what do i do?
2007-01-05 23:07:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
be urself!
2007-01-05 23:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be yourself with your partner. If you feel his is taking you
for granted, you need to talk with him. If you are a b**** , then he
may leave you for that and you may have missed out on the love
of your life. I am a pretty quiet and patient person too. When I feel like someone is taking advantage of my niceness, I tell them it's a good thing I'm nice and if they don't stop, then they are going to look pretty funny walking around with my foot sticking out of their a**.
2007-01-06 07:14:05 · answer #2 · answered by Spacey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always be true .Don't lie b the person inside yourself & you won't have stress in your life.People need to accept you 4 who you r .If they truly love you they will always b there and understand when times r hard .If they try to hurt u to get even thats not love.They won't take u for granted because if you r being true to yourself u won't let them{ it will bother u }
2007-01-06 07:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were did you get such a bunch of fools from as friends? dump them immediately. all relationship need honesty no matter what level of commintment it is.
be your self and also demand that your bf is honest with you. but yes. being forgiving and patient doesnt mean your take **** from him. remember that your self respect comes first. otherwise no relatonship can work without comromise.
2007-01-06 07:21:58 · answer #4 · answered by urfriendfrlife 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself, acting can get tiresome, and if he is the right guy for you you will balance out and he will never take you for granted, he'll know he's lucky to have a patient forgiving girl :)
2007-01-06 07:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by tsitsi_gracia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are happy or comfortable of what he is doing by your nature, then cant see any problem at all. Everyone is different and everyone lives a different happy life. Therefore ask yourself if you are happy with it.
2007-01-06 07:22:53 · answer #6 · answered by lily 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with others that be yourself.
U will yourself have to be on toes to be that person you want to project yourself as. Therefore, just be yourself and there's no big happiness than liked by what we are than that what we pretend we are.
2007-01-06 07:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by Sunlight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello pls be urself and do what is good according to u as u know what the situation is and pls dont listen to ur friends as i think ur friends are ur biggest enemy if ur partner is good y u want to change urself .
remember 1 thing best friend is who wants u and ur family to be happy so be careful and do waht ur heart says.
2007-01-06 07:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by simran 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act all you want but the true you will come out eventually. cant see the point in being in a relationship if you cant be yourself.
2007-01-06 07:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be smart...access the situation...no fixed rules...Change yr approach as per his motives...be cautious..Life is precious and U R the best judge
2007-01-06 07:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only u can answer this question , just listen to what Ur heart says ! it depends on the nature of ur opp. person
2007-01-06 07:22:46 · answer #11 · answered by vishwa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋