I have just returned from a week spent at my boyfriend's place. He has just moved into a new flat, which is tiny. We spent the New Year at his parents place and we celebrated with his friends. We have been in a long-distance relationship for a couple of years, together for 3 years. I told him that I would like to go to his city to learn his language for a couple of months and possibly live with him. I did not realise that his flat was so tiny though. He got scared of the idea though and told me that he is not ready to live together. He pulled away and now I am not sure what to do?
2007-01-05 22:53:19 · 7 answers · asked by violet b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, you know what to do, Voilet, you just don't want to. Let it go.
2007-01-05 22:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off and let him get adjusted to the new place. If you need more in your relationship than he has to give you need to move on. You cant ask someone to give you what they dont have.
2007-01-06 06:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by Belinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pull away from him as well. You are doing everything on his terms and getting little back. Don't let him take you for granted.
2007-01-06 06:56:30 · answer #3 · answered by delphi13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not so sure of himself he thinks you look at him and think he has failed you,that is what happens when people judge themselves on material things if you love him help him.
2007-01-06 07:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by TheMan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you trust him? I mean to your knowledge has the relationship been open and honest?
2007-01-06 07:34:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and get a real life.
2007-01-06 07:03:52 · answer #6 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you know,
2007-01-06 08:56:29 · answer #7 · answered by Weed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋