2007-01-05 22:25:59 · 17 answers · asked by Johnny M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Someone always gets hurt---the ego is a fragile thing---it takes a huge hearted and an immensely forgiving person to get past all of this. Infidelity comes from a few different causes---relationships that are on shakey ground and not fulfilling, lack of respect, misguided ideas of what fidelity is all about....and sometimes it is used as revenge. You need to calmly figure out why it happened--something about you that drove another to stray. Are you both immature and not ready to commit to a monogamous relationship? Professionally you will be told that communications is vital to getting past this. But if you are not ready to forgive and forget---move on--if you do work it out--good luck and remember to be nice to each other and have respect for each other also.
2007-01-05 22:36:50 · answer #1 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you ever "recover" ,you deal with it with your spouse. Councelling, talking about where each of you thinks your relationship is and decided together if you think it can be repaired. I have never forgotten nor do i forgive my spouse. Infidelity changes the marriage forever, in my opinion. The cheater takes something away from the marriage you can never get back.The key is to decide if you can learn to trust the person again. Without trust there is no foundation.
2007-01-05 23:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by denise b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on who the infidel is.
I guess every one handles it differently.
You may need counsel,but see if you can iron it out yourself.
If you do the wrong thing it could be very costly and last a long time. Its hard to Analise without knowing most of the details which could be vast.
2007-01-05 22:45:24 · answer #3 · answered by Billy Butthead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on your information, Gingrich additionally left a maximum cancers afflicted spouse for a mistress of a 6 12 months affair. untrue is untrue. A cheat is a cheat, no count number what political social gathering they belong to. inquiring for a divorce does not negate a 6 12 months affair, despite if he did marry his mistress interior the top. i'm no longer a John Edwards fan yet you're comparing 12 of one and a dozen of the different with your question. neither is a mind-blowing or ethical individual.
2016-11-26 23:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by blunkall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being married for 24 yrs and he was unfaithful, it destroyed so much that we just couldnt keep it together. Sometimes what it takes years to build, it only takes a minute to destroy. That was 6 yrs ago, im now over it and moving on with my life... guess its really up to the person. Good Luck!!
2007-01-06 00:47:29 · answer #5 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on what had caused the infidelity.
2007-01-05 22:27:29 · answer #6 · answered by OC 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask yourself if you want to.
If she wants to? It takes two to make any relationship work and after one has broken that trust it will make it allot harder. Make sure you both are willing to put the effort into it.
Good luck
2007-01-06 00:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by Krazee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time.
2007-01-05 22:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by The 17th Sheep 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be careful.....it's hard to recover from that. Take care of yourself....work out...endulge in your hobbies...take a hot little mistress....(or mister) and forget....Good luck and I hope u do well....
2007-01-05 22:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by C Shannon 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one to answer. A breach of something that close and serious is pretty hard to get over, if ever.
2007-01-05 22:30:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋