Why are some men so insecure? I just dont get it, if they feel this way why don't they be with someone they feel 100 percent comfortable with. I dont want to prove that Im anything to anyone. I just want to be left alone
2007-01-05 22:19:59 · 13 answers · asked by laura k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why are we so insecure? Simple! We just are afraid of being:
-used
-rejected
-humiliated
Anyways, mebe some rest is good for you, and a snickers bar...it always helps me when I'm on my monthly and have crazy mood swings!
Good Luck!
2007-01-05 22:23:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if I'll be the first to point out that you make zero sense.
Mmkay, here we go.
- Some men are insecure for the same reason some women are insecure. Upbringing, environment, past experiences that shaped them. This isn't their fault, and often isn't even recognized. And it certainly isn't something to be critisized for.
- Being insecure has absolutely nothing to do with being with someone they're 100 per cent comfortable with. In truth, when you have severe insecurity issues, there really isn't ANYONE you're completely comfortable with. Are you trying to justify someone not wanting to be with you?
- You start out by complaining about some guy being insecure. You then go on to say you want to be left alone. Do you think posting this in a public setting is going to help you get left alone?
Quit trying to rationalize a situation to make yourself a victim, I get so incredibly tired of seeing it.
2007-01-06 06:25:50 · answer #2 · answered by Jaded 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a point in a man's life when he really experience some sort of insecurity no matter who their girlfriend is or how comfortable they are with their partner. My girlfriend broke up with me months ago maybe because of my insecurities. You don't need to prove to anyone that you are somebody just to pacify your partner's insecurity. You just need to understand why he is so insecure and learn to communicate it to him. My insecurity was caused by my frustrations in career, disappointments with people around me, blah! blah! and i felt that she can find somebody more worthy than me. I know its not right to feel that way but i can't block it off my mind. Maybe that's how your partner feels right now. Insecurity is always caused by something else. Just my thought.
2007-01-06 06:56:26 · answer #3 · answered by Allan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really enough information here to give you much of an answer. We all seem to have some insecurities--some more that others--some insecurities are greater at different times or on different issues.
2007-01-06 06:29:56 · answer #4 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all men are insecure. some just hide it better and put up a front. those ones are usally more insecure. A secure man is not afrais to tell you his feelings. not pretend to be all hard inside.
2007-01-06 06:44:28 · answer #5 · answered by bungalo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sleep and dream of a real man which is not available now ad-days,baby no one is perfect!!if you feel you r perfect search for the perfect!!but we r human beings we must have some defaults in our personality!!if you loved a man you must be sure he has his own faults!!and you must be able to accept it or you r dreaming!!go search for the man of your dreams!!by this way don't worry, you'll live alone!!but i think you refuse that from your inside!!you r just trying to convince your self with an idea!!go to sleep baby,you may change your mind when you wake up!!
2007-01-06 06:36:33 · answer #6 · answered by donia f 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are insecure because maybe you are his everything and he felt like he will lose you in anytime
maybe, he likes you too much and he feels like you dont feel the way he feels...
2007-01-06 06:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by meaurge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've got two brothers so i know something. They're just too proud to share their problems. guys have a tendency to act strong so that they wont seem like a weak guy. But in reality I find open guys more attractive. :D
2007-01-06 06:23:40 · answer #8 · answered by chansey_44 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You r insecure because of your past.who bothers you?
2007-01-06 06:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you realize that the older a man gets the more secure they are try older men
2007-01-06 06:26:59 · answer #10 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋