Not just looks, I'm talking about personality and chararcter. You can talk about looks too, but I'm mainly wondering about the rest. Gracias.
2007-01-05 20:45:09 · 10 answers · asked by T 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Confidence and a sense of humor are a must! Intelligence is also important, but goofyness is an attractive trait so long as it isn't too prominent. The body is secondary to the mind.
2007-01-06 15:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm..good question..I never really thought about it but looks do have a role to play to an extent..for myself I look for good company, someone who always has a topic about something not gossiping and negativity, someone not afraid to look the fool willing to laugh at their mistakes not dwell on others faults, someone who has a big heart, has an inner child within themselves and not afraid to let it out every now and again..willing to smile for no reason at all, laugh and make fun but be able to take a joke too..a companion you can sit around and do nothing with but feel comfortable just being near..but then that's just me..I'm sure others have other ideas..
2007-01-06 05:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by Charmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Funny, great sense of humor, love for life, no self-censorship, intelligent, loves to talk/debate/read/philosophize/think, ambitious, has a thick skin, no love of drama or conflict/confrontation, witty, deeply caring, has strong opinions and values, open-minded, independent, and trustworthy and honest.
Same thing I (as a bisexual) look for in men- the sort of characteristics I want to see in my partner.
2007-01-06 05:43:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's nothing I particularly look for- but if a woman happens to walk by and I'm attracted to her I'm attracted to her- she doesnt need to have a certian personality or look- more of when I look at her or talk to her I get a certain *click*
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however, I do tend to be attracted to goth and punk girls.
Also, a woman who is flirty, and wouldn't leave me for a man.
2007-01-06 04:47:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sammy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me, confidence is the sexiest trait you can have. I love a woman who is confident in herself. Hmm...open-minded is a big turn-on as well. Umm...considerate, energetic. I love a woman who is fun to be around. It's always nice to share some hobbies/interests. Hope this helps!
2007-01-06 05:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. i want a girl that its funny, but when its time to be serious she should be
2. i want her to be gentle, i want her to express her feelings too me..., honest, i want to be happy with the person i love...so i don't really know...what to say...ok so i loved a lot of girls but non of them knew that i was and am gay..so i started to compare them...the way they talked, walked, act, these kinda stuffs....and i never stop and the only way i would stop is if i find someone great...that will make me feel special, good, that knows how to talk to me, that actually understands me...
3. ok so the looks well i don't know i am indifferent here..cuz i don't care if she isn't the prettiest girl around...i like to know that in her way she has a beauty, that she has that beauty inside of her...that makes me feel....ohh...good...very good.....
i haven't found the "perfect one" so i am still looking but you know love is right under your nose and i can't see it sometimes....and when you have it you just keep it next to u and never let go...
2007-01-06 13:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't look. I'm taken by a guy. But what I do tend to like, when I find myself attracted to women, is a quiet, sweet, smart personality. I tend to like "girl next door" types who wear glasses, like to write, are passionate about education and domestic politics but even-keeled and low key. They tend to be tom-boyish and like nature/the outdoors, but also kind of feminine in a "little girlish" way like they like animals, have long hair, and don't act "tough" but graceful. I like someone who tells it like it is but can be a little bashful. Someone who likes to talk out issues but can be quiet, content, and patient. I don't find myself attracted to women who are loud/outgoing, masculine/butch, too "girlygirl," or not clean-cut (I like clean-cut/"goody" women and men). So yeah.
2007-01-07 14:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mature, intelligent, funny, warm, caring, kind, self-aware, feminine.
Physically: pretty varied; but I have an aesthetic preference for dark skin
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2007-01-06 08:08:50 · answer #8 · answered by Plum 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I love confidence, sensitivity and an open mind.
2007-01-06 05:03:31 · answer #9 · answered by hannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the way she dressed and bring herself.
2007-01-06 04:48:45 · answer #10 · answered by Po-ey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋