2007-01-05 20:33:10 · 14 answers · asked by nerissa_delfierro 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, have the same problem, just moved far away from them
so its to far for them to come over often and stop answering their call for a while and they got the point
2007-01-05 20:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by jokerswild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your husband? Does he love you?
The whole thing is that you're married to him and if your inlaws are butting in, hey, that's their whole motivation when their son gets married. The best thing to do is take it with a grain of salt and then cast it off.
If their interference is leading to arguments with your husband, you'll need to talk it over with him. Counseling might be a good course of action if he can't see the problem or bringing in a unbiased third party. Having an objective point of view might let him realize what is going on.
If the inlaws can be talked to there's always that avenue. Tread softly, though. We've all heard the stories about INLAWS.
Good luck.
2007-01-06 04:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by DragonWrites the Fire Faery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Nerissa, I posted this answer the other day.
My wife and I have a great marriage, wanna know why?? our in-laws have ZERO say. WE make OUR decisions, they made THEIR decisions in their lives, and won't make ours.
I see so many inlaws butting into marriages, its so sad. And.........most of the time, the men are such wimpy mommas boys, they allow it. You need to tell this guy to "step up to the plate" and be a man. You don't want a mommas boy around.
I understand your anger, and most likely the inlaws won't stop cause their probably old and bored to death with each other so they prey on you. Well, you don't need this crap. best of luck
2007-01-06 04:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by godzillasagoodman 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. It is a hard thing to control and it does put alot of stress on you. I have wanted to give up so many times and I just can't let them win. I am getting to the point were I am putting my foot down and if I have to be rude then so be it. I am a nice person but I think people do us that way is cause we let so much go without saying something. Put your foot down and just try and hang in there.
2007-01-06 05:49:26 · answer #4 · answered by Shonda Murphy-Polk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. Is he falling for it? If so, yes by all means leave, cause you will never win.
if he isnt' falling for it, tell them to back off! My OUTLAWS were always meddlings in my marriage. And he fell for it, they caused alot of emotional problems for me. Even after I went for a divorce, it was all their business, they got right into the divorce fights in and the courts.
2007-01-06 04:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When they meddle the idea of leaving pops into my mind.
2007-01-06 04:43:45 · answer #6 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're married to your husband, not his family.
Tell them to mind their own business and leave you alone, unless your husband agrees with them in which case, dump him!
2007-01-06 04:36:15 · answer #7 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how bad it gets and if he sides or agrees with them all the time never defending you in any sittuation against them . if that is the case I would probably say yeah enough is enough and file for divorce and name the parents as the reason . good luck to you.
2007-01-06 08:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no!ask your husband to tell his folks to back off,if that doesent work you tell the parents to back off.you and your husband need to sit down and explain to him how this is effecting you,that you are doubting staying together,but that you love him.how can the 2 of you together fix the problem."?
2007-01-06 07:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by stacy_32letmetellya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he would not put a stop to it damn right i would in laws have no business in Ur relationship ad they will eventually cause y'all to split up tell them to but the **** out
2007-01-06 06:32:53 · answer #10 · answered by terry o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋