please tell me wat to do.?

Question

i am 14 yrs old.my best friend is too simple.she doesnt understand whats right and whats not.there r a few girls in her class who are not good.i want to keep her away from them but they praise her and always make her laugh which she likes.she is in two minds.she wants to be on both the sides.but i know they will do her no good.how can i make her realize the truth without it affecting our friendship?i have told her many times.she agrees to it but is the same within a few days.please tell me wat 2 do

Answer 1

There are some things that our friends must learn for themselves. Every 14-year-old (including me -- and I am now an adult) has gone through with his or her friends what you are going through right now with your friend.

You can warn her, advise her, but then you have to pull back and live your own life. That doesn't mean you have to stop being friends with this girl, but don't allow her to pull you into her questionable lifestyle with these other girls. Instead, support her but also begin to acquire other friends yourself. In other words, you have to begin to expand your "friendship web."

I hope this helps you. (And by the way, I understood your English perfectly.)

Answer 2

Know this: you can change yourself and you may have influence with certain people in life. But the more you talk the less other's listen or value what you have to say because it comes to freely. So focus on your life and wait for her (others) to ask questions. Whether you choose to answer those questions is your perogative.

Essentially other people rarely want someone else's advice. Even when they seem to be asking for it. I have a rule: unless they're paying me to give them advice I keep my mouth shut when it comes to their personal business.

Most people fail to learn from books, much less other people's experience. Many have to make their own mistakes in order to truly learn (appreciate). Maybe she's one of many.

Answer 3

Be patient and give her tims. She will realise sooner or later. You love you friend so stick with her and let her know that you are their for her always. Try to show her the opposite side of her other so called bad friends and then leave the decision to her.

All the best.

Answer 4

If she is ur best friend then yes you are right you should give her right advice.
But following your advice is in her hand.
so you cannot force her to do anything just because she is your best friend.
you just can advice her once or twice that's all.
and you just can hope for good.
goodluck.

Answer 5

If she has friends that make her laugh, what is the problem? Are you jealous? You haven't said anything about how they are no good.

Answer 6

if she's the 'bak-to-form' kinda person...tell her no more... ur jus wasting time... i know she's ur good friend... but what is a good friend who does not realize things??? if she's intelligent enough, she'll let em go and stick to ya... else... leave her be... some things cannot be changed....

Answer 7

experiance makes man perfect. so let her take experience,she will learn how to face the problems in life so dont get worried.

Answer 8

r u 14 year old so u concentrate your study, don't mind.

Answer 9

I don't think there's anything to do with this!Just let her be friend and with u and with those girls!You'll see that after some time if she is clever she might understand that you were right!!!!!!!!And don't be fed up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hey,life's goin on!!!!!!!!!

Answer 10

do that what she enjoys , follow those people whom u want her to keep her away from.