been engaged for a year and date not set.
2007-01-05 19:34:15 · 20 answers · asked by angel eys 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Wow girl, thats a question only you can answer. Is he worth waiting for? Some people never marry and are happy for the rest of their lives. I can understand needing a licence to hunt or fish or drive but to really love and commit to someone you have to decide how important that "licence" really is.
2007-01-05 19:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by thinkinitout 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have been engaged for one year and he still has not set a date then he probably never will you are engaged in name only . he will never marry you move on he is a sad excuse for a human being and he does not intend to ever marry you . find someone else who is more honest and knows what they want this guy obviously does not .good luck.
2007-01-06 00:28:58 · answer #2 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How important is it to you to get married? If is against your morals and values to live with him before you are married then you need to rethink the whole relationship. Is it important to him? It seems not so much. Obviously he does not mind this arrangement since it has been going on for so long. Do you love him enough to keep things the way the are or do you want to give him a ultimatum for him to make a decision? Either way you know how strong your love is for him and him for you better then we do so do what is right in your heart.
2007-01-05 19:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by meka30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my man for 12 years now, but we're happy. If you really want to get married, this guy you're with is probably not going to do it. The only way you'll stand a chance is to move into another bedroom til he get's the message you're not giving it to him for free. Right now he's got no incentive to change anything.
2007-01-05 19:42:14 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you're only dating I would say go, but, since you guys are engaged seems like he wants to commit. Maybe he needs time to save money for the wedding or future?
2007-01-05 19:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
See if he's not ready after 7 years, then maybe you should go. If you love him, don't pressure him though, and time shouldn't be an issue. But he may have commitment issues. Are yall having sex? Because if yall were then there might not be much of an incentive to actually marry.
2007-01-05 19:36:32 · answer #6 · answered by WILSON 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this man don't want to marry you then this mean that he does not love you. Just go away with this stupid guy and move on. Find another guy who is brave enough to love and marry you. I think this guy is afraid to take responsibilities so just live him and he will find how important you are in his life. Cheer up!
2007-01-05 19:44:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Caroline has made a good point. The engagement without dates is no engagement at all. It is a ruse to string you along.
2007-01-05 19:40:52 · answer #8 · answered by mojonah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go. If he got engaged just to quiet you, and is not going to marry you, leave already.... You have wasted enough time - at least four more years than I would have!
2007-01-05 23:40:33 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want to get married, then you aren't engaged. re-think what your relationship actually is.
i don't know if giving him a deadline will work or not, if he's determined to not get married. you gotta talk to him and find out why. if he can't meet you halfway, then he probably wouldn't be a very good husband.
2007-01-05 19:36:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋