My best friend is like a sister to me, we've shared our deepest secrets. When she broke up with her boyfriend, i helped her through her trance. Recently I broke up with mine and she nearly slapped him for doing this to me. So in despise for guys we said we were going to take our studies as our priority now. At first, it was a good resolution. We and some other friends spent our time together more often than we used to. But recently a guy was trying his approach to me. I backed away but he was determined. He was being smooth, a good listener and all to me. Well like the "perfect guy" and well... I've started to get a crush for him. I didn't tell this my best friend, in fear she thinks i betrayed our resolution. The guy told me his feelings for me and I accidently spilled mine as well. Now we are together, I don't know what to do. My best friend has the faint idea that he and me have a crush but i told her it wasn't serious. What am i going to do?
2007-01-05 19:32:39 · 14 answers · asked by r33 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't think your best friend should have a major problem with you and another person having a crush on each other because it's normal and it happens without planning... I think if you were comfortable around her then she would understand the situation. Having a best friend doesn't mean that you have to let go of your own personal life, and it doesn't mean that you have to live for her or that she has to live for you- that would even beyond having a sister type of relationship. If things were going well then she would be happy for you and it doesn't mean that you can't hang out anymore. Just talk about it with her.
2007-01-05 19:41:06 · answer #1 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truthfully, a mind-blowing relationship includes the two being a ultimate pal and a lover. You bf appears like he truly does not pay lots interest to you. Your ultimate pal and your self sound such as you admire one yet another, can compromise, and look after another. IMO, it sounds to me you too make a mind-blowing journey. even yet it somewhat is truly all as much as you. think of approximately it. Will you boyfriend combat for you or will he be over it in like each and every week in case you spoil up with him. remember your ultimate pal has continuously been there for you. stick on your coronary heart do what you think of is right.
2016-11-26 23:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course ur best friend/ friends r preffered to kings/ dont go after calf love/ accept the reality/n if u feel alalone n no one around means that god wnts to talk to u/ interact with god/ U will find someone who will be caring/honest/sober. Relax.
2007-01-06 02:49:39 · answer #3 · answered by raashi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are a dime a dozen but best friends are hard to come by is he really worth loosing your best friend for you barley know him and she has been with you through thick and thin just be friends with the guy for now if its not lust and you 2 really start to care about each other then you need to talk to her about it are you sure your not on the rebound??
2007-01-05 19:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by notes from an angry white chic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and if she's your best friend then she shouldn't get mad that you've found somebody that makes you happy if she does then she's not too much of a friend. Because that would be selfish of her. Good Luck!
2007-01-05 19:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends before boyfriends for sure! Boys will come and go but true friends remain forever!
2007-01-05 19:39:28 · answer #6 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her...if she doesn't understant. be patient.
first, be sure this guy is the real deal...you really don't want your friend to tell you "i told you so".
...no matter what happens.
GUYS COME AND GO,BUT FRIENDS ARE FOREVER.
-try making her know that you'r still the best of friends and that you'll still study well, even if you have a boyfriend.
2007-01-05 19:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a fact that you will never find good friends but you can always explain the position to your friend I am sure she will understand it. Try speaking to her.
2007-01-05 19:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have no real solution for your problem but if she is your best friend and understand you then you needn't to fear. And one thing i wanna tell you is that BEWARE OF US[BOYS]. Find that is theguy really trustable and honest with you. Then proceed...
2007-01-05 23:03:04 · answer #9 · answered by Mani Dhillon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First be frank with your friend. Your friend is not so narrow minded who will mind for your commitments. She knows sacrifice for friends and a good lesson for you as well.
2007-01-05 19:38:40 · answer #10 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋