No psycho stuff, no booty calls, no games....just real friends?
2007-01-05 19:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by mithril 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just because you're not in love doesn't mean you want them out of your life. Especially if they are decent, good hearted people. It's not fair to lead them on like that. If you like and respect them, you cannot fake emotions that you only wish were there.
And on that same point, very many people have to break up with people they are in love with, but cannot tolerate outrageously bad behaviour, like cheating, drug/alcohol problems, or domestic abuse.
2007-01-05 19:45:38 · update #1
yes. of course. in such situations I would follow the policy of "FORGET & FORGIVE". our life on earth is for a small period and we need to live a life which will keep others happy and smiling. it is more important than money.
2007-01-05 19:36:33 · answer #1 · answered by Adam Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess you can do what ever is in your power to get her back. But you may have screwed up way to big and she may not want you back as much as you want her back. But it's all up to her, she has to decide if she wants you back so try and be the guy she went out with the first time and not the guy who dumped her for her best friend.
2016-05-22 22:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends what they did to get dumped. If they abused me or hurt me or my loved ones or slept around, probably not. But if it was just a parting of ways kind of thing and you guys aren't still really emotionally involved, I'd say go for it. You already know each other well, so it could turn out to be an awesome friendship.
2007-01-05 19:33:27 · answer #3 · answered by grayhare 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If BOTH of you truly want to be friends I do not see a problem with it. Most people say they want to be friends after a relationship to hold on to what they had before. Even if they do not want to admit that to the other person. The best thing to do is go your sep. ways for a while and if you still wnat to be friends after both of you have had some time apart then I think it is okay.
2007-01-05 19:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by Princess Sophia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is impossible. If you dumped them then that means you no longer want them in your life so why would you be friends? If they dumped you why would you want to be their friend if you knew they didn't want you?
2007-01-05 19:33:16 · answer #5 · answered by ChocLover 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes because there's nothing wrong with that. It shows maturity.
2007-01-05 19:32:15 · answer #6 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea i think this is ok, but the really hard thing about it,is the next boyfriend you have wont agree with it.
2007-01-05 19:34:08 · answer #7 · answered by Bex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex husband is my best friend nothing more! It can be done
2007-01-05 19:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by mandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure, why not.? Just give each other time to grieve (if you need to)
2007-01-05 19:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋