Why I want to end my life: Because I always screw up friendships, and I loose people over and over again, I keep wishing I had a different family, even though I don't want to wish that. Because people mean everything to me, I don't mean anything to them, and I can't continue giving and giving until there is nothing left to give because all I want to do is give, but I just don't have enough, yet I have way too much, I'm seriously confused, hurt because the ones I care about the most always end up leaving me. I've always felt like I have infinite love for everyone overflowing out of my heart, and now it seems like it'll never stop leaving me emptying into a bottomless lake. I just wish I didn't hurt so very much, but my pain is unbearable.
2007-01-05 19:29:31 · 11 answers · asked by Bedam 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
well i dont know what to say but i just want to know you'll be ok even though i dont know you i feel for you.. and i hope you'll be ok dont commit suicide or anything PLEASE! there must be someone there for you if not call some helpline i dont know what there like but people say they help im here if you wanna tlak .. add me to msn quack_if_you_want_to@hotmail.com xxx
2007-01-05 19:39:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you r feeling really shitty right now, i dont know wots up with your friendships and family but if it hurts as bad as you sound, cry alittle, take a long bath, walk a mile and later find someone you can trust an talk to them.
Life can be shitty sometimes , really bringing you down but when we rise from these problems , we become better and stronger people learning lessons that we can one day share.
I really wish i was with you right now coz you can really use a hug.
Whatever has happened or whatever it is you r going through will pass, just hang in there.
Will say a little prayer for you.
2007-01-06 03:53:12 · answer #2 · answered by buttercup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient with yourself - and your life. I've survived things I never thought I was strong enough to live through...and it only served to make me better and stronger and wiser.
Sometimes life is difficult, but those times pass and are temporary.
Being dead is permanent...you don't get a second chance at it this time around. But you'll have to comeback again to learn the lessons you missed...better to learn as many lessons as possible.
There are people in your community who are trained to help you see your value when you lose sight of yourself. Don't hesitate to seek help on your path. You might be surprised how much help you have to give others when you first seek help for yourself. It can be a sort of instant Karma thing :-)
Be well and Be safe...
2007-01-06 03:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to get couseling. you need someone you can talk to who only wants to listen and won't judge. next you need to realize that life is too short to just give up!! yes life can be painful, but it can also be wonderful too! you need to find your balance. start to train your mind to think differently, start looking at the good in your life instead of always dwelling on whats wrong. you say you have alot of love to share, great!! do something with it! go volunteer at the childrens hospital near you. now theres a real eye opener!! or volunteer at a nursing home, a shelter, any place that has people with real problems and need people like you to share their last days with. the more time you spend with them the more you will realize that you have it good!! you won't be so focussed on you anymore, and you will be helping people who really need it! GOOD LUCK!!
2007-01-06 03:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by onyx maiden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commiting suicide is not the answer to your problems. Right now you are doing the right thing and it's letting your hurt out. You are putting one foot in front of the other. When someone mentions the word suicide, I so take them serious. Please, get some help and talk to someone who can medically help you. Everybody hurts. It's part of life. You are not a lone in this world. Here is a song for you.
Everybody Hurts
When the day is long and the night, the night is yours alone,
When you’re sure you’ve had enough of this life, well hang on.
Don’t let yourself go, everybody cries and everybody hurts sometimes.
Sometimes everything is wrong. Now it’s time to sing along.
When your day is night alone, (hold on, hold on)
If you feel like letting go, (hold on)
When you think you’ve had too much of this life, well hang on.
Everybody hurts. Take comfort in your friends.
Everybody hurts. Don’t throw your hand. Oh, no. Don’t throw your hand.
If you feel like you’re alone, no, no, no, you are not alone
If you’re on your own in this life, the days and nights are long,
When you think you’ve had too much of this life to hang on.
Well, everybody hurts sometimes,
Everybody cries. And everybody hurts sometimes.
And everybody hurts sometimes. So, hold on, hold on.
Hold on, hold on. Hold on, hold on. Hold on, hold on. (repeat & fade)
(Everybody hurts. You are not alone.)
Please seak help. Here is a site that can help you. http://www.hopeline.com/
2007-01-06 03:57:28 · answer #5 · answered by Adriels Mom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok--sit back, take a breath. Clear your head. Look, none of this matters. Nothing matters. Don't think about what just happened. Think of how the future will be better. Don't stress over people. Like I said, it doesn't matter. Everything is just temporary. None of this is worth your life.
Pray, Meditate, think, do what you need to do to clear your mind.
2007-01-06 03:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know EXACTLY how you feel..I am always on the lookout for people like you (tenderhearts) in a world filled with selfish cruel people..so far i've met only a few and they all feel the same as you..but if it wasn't for them i don't think i could go on either..so, by the virtue of your very existance you have already helped me..and i appreciate it, REALLY, and i appreciate you, your tenderheart gives me hope...
2007-01-06 03:47:13 · answer #7 · answered by paradigm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think too much. You also spend to much energy trying to please people. quit giving so much and start living for yourself. The plain fact is most people do not like someone who constantly gives. its natural for them to just keep taking and taking til they despise you for giving too much.
The way you live and think just needs to be altered. Start living for you.
The first thing you need to do is get counseling so you can learn how.
2007-01-06 03:34:18 · answer #8 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
simply put, death is NOT the answer to anything in life. im not a couselor or anything, but go to a church, talk to people there. i hope u reconsider life
2007-01-06 03:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by SocalHEAT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live i was there myself then moved away from the problems
2007-01-06 03:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Tigerex-the lonely archer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋