Every time I talk to someone I always have to figure out what to say? So can you pretty please give me some ideas!!! All answers are really appreciated!
2007-01-05 19:28:51 · 7 answers · asked by with The Vicious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You think before you speak to bad more people dont do that. Like some people who answered your question.
2007-01-05 19:42:38 · answer #1 · answered by saturn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, give yourself the benefit of the doubt here. Maybe what you say is quality, and not just verbiage. I hate small talk unless it's being courteous with strangers so everyone feels at ease. As boring as it sounds, current events, or even the weather will do for me in those situations.
2007-01-06 03:58:46 · answer #2 · answered by Huguenot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the feeling that you are very young. First just listen to what they have to say and what they are talking about. If it is a guy thing and you are lost for words; and if he is into sports, find out who is favorite team is and the the evening news and read about sports. Is the reason that you do not respond to people is that you are shy, and afraid to speak up. Bring up the middle east and see what their feelings are about out troops getting killed. Read about it and try and make conversation. It will probably blow their mind. Make desisions. I just learned last night that the young lady (beautiful) that brought me Pappa John's pizza for over a year is in Bulusa, in Irak. Her mother brought me my pizza last night as she wanted to see me, and tell me about her daughter who is scared shitless". She told me that they go without bathing sometimes for weeks. I can't imagine. I told her mother last night to make sure "she shoots straight". Tell that to your friends. Say, I have something I want to share with you; and tell them just what I told you.
2007-01-06 03:55:23 · answer #3 · answered by virginiamayoaunt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow thinker and you feel like what you go to say don't matter so u just decides to keep quiet. had the same problem!!!! but grew out of it after high school
2007-01-06 03:36:12 · answer #4 · answered by krittlette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start drinking heavily before you go out. You need to be liquored up before he will like you.
2007-01-06 03:33:02 · answer #5 · answered by BUM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem. I pray for God to give me something intelligent to say.
Maybe we should hook up. Then we can practice our conversation on each other. :)
2007-01-06 03:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by JoeBob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
conversation for the most part is not planned. You just wing it otherwise it is a meeting.
2007-01-06 03:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Wat Da Hell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋