will i have to use contraceptions like condom while having sex with my WIFE?

Question

here in Iran teenagers in my age do not know any about the important things that they must know about sexual activities.just because Iran is a Islamic country! so please answer me with all details and tell me every thing about that.I know that using contraceptions while having sex is needed but what about having sex with our wife?

Answer 1

if you don't want to get her pregnant, yes, keep using contraception.

only have unprotected sex if you're 100% sure they're not cheating on you and you want to have a baby.

Answer 2

Well... if you already have more kids which you CANNOT send to school, give 3 meals a day, provide QUALITY life, and give AMPLE attention to each, then Its time for you to have contraceptive.

Here in my country where proverty is so rampant, our government is encouring the use of contraceptive --- not to erradicate overpopulation but to instill a good and harmonious family life --- where all kids can attend to school, have a great meal, leisure, clothing, etc

Also, contraceptive's objective is for you NOT to acquire sexually transmitted diseases like AIDS, herpes, etc... If you ONLY have your wife to have sex with --- and your sure she's not contaminated, then you dont need contraceptive. SO --- you may use condom if you are not SURE if your (sexual) partner (if there is other than your wife) is hygienic and doesnt have sexually transmitted diseases.

Religiously speaking... well Im not an Islam... In my religion, any form of unnatural contraception (condom, pills, etc) is not encouraged because of the "promulgation" principle.. that we were CREATED to multiply. How about yours?

SO you decide, your belief / religion?...
.... or limiting the numbers of your kids and lessening the possiblities of acquiring sexual diseases?

Answer 3

Well she is your wife...If she isn't having sex with anyone else and neither are you, then you don't have to use a contraception. You also have to think about getting pregnant though..If you don't want kids now, then you two should try birth control. Like the pill, or the injection or the patch...For that you would have to go a doctor and get family planning...This should also be something that both of you discuss...

Answer 4

Unless you want to have children use condom first before sex Sperm can leak out without you knowing it and get her pregnant. Use a good lubricant(k-y Jelly) on you both for added pleasure. Do not forget about for play.- Kissing- touching-tenderness. This is not 100% fool proof but much better then no protection.

Answer 5

You will need to use a condom unless she is on a contraceptive, such as birthcontrol. I do not know if your country alows that, but if they don't, then use a condom unless you are trying to have a child together. Do not reuse a condom though and only one is needed per use. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

Condoms prevent sexually transmitted diseases (STDs) and pregnancy.

If you and your wife have sex only with each other and neither one of you has STDs, you do not need to use a condom.
If you do not want to have children right away, she should use an alternative method of birth control, such as the pill.

Answer 7

If u r sure that ur wife has not hd sex before with anybody else (to ensure safety from HIV), and as long as u want her to bear children u dont need contraceptive.

Answer 8

Why would you want to use contraceptives with your wife? I mean if you dnt want to have kids, use birth control (pills) if you can, or condoms will get the job done. Check out plannedparenthood.com

Answer 9

Use the condom with your wife if you do not want her to get pregnant. Condom is only so the girl will not get pregnant or wife for that matter.

Answer 10

well if you are not ready to have a baby use contrceptives like condoms or the pill or even over the counter foams.If you cant find what you want where you live, i bet you can find it online.