2007-01-05 18:54:38 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
You mean whether I have been such a big fool ever.... indeed yes and the one sided profound love changed my life dramatically after it failed inevitably.
I believe that the one sided love is a much purer one than the ideal mutual love... the mutuality does bring in expectations on both sides.
2007-01-05 19:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by small 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yeah Russel Crowe, and Harrison Ford, I dont mind though I have the DVDs so I can be with them all the time if I want. ha ha .Only kidding but I have a real problem with that. How can you really love someone if they don't know you exist. That is like being in love with one of those movie stars.You just have an infatuation right now and maybe when you get to know them you will not love them at all. You may like them right now, and that gets confused because of the hormones, and the feelings you get inside. If they iggy you just push on there are more fish in the sea. Why bother you are more important than they are when it comes to you. But if you must, find some common denominator between you and then move in and introduce yourself and see what comes of it. Like he may belong to some club or has a mutual friend. Or send him an anonymous letter and say that you know that you like him and see the response? But don't sign your name what ever you do. That is a humorous way to do it. When he reads it he will be curious, he will never expect you wrote it that would be too embarrassing in his mind. Write it in a boys handwriting as well, or disguise yours. He will find out who you are and he will look at you differently, with wonder? But please dont be a male's conquest for his trophy chest?
2007-01-06 03:07:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That, my dear is not love. That is infatuation.
You can't love someone with whom you do not have any kind of back and forth, give and take relationship. You can't love someone without even having had a real conversation many times over and spending actual time to get to know who they are inside and out and vice versa. You must both spend time getting to know each other inside and out. You don't love someone just because of what you observe from an outside point of view. That is infatuation, maybe a little obsession, but certainly not true love. If you can tell me that you once had this kind of relationship but now the other person has broken it off I could understand, but not if you've never really even been in this persons life at all.
I have been infatuated with men before, but it's usually a different story once you begin a real relationship (ie: dating) with them. Then you get to know the real person and they are often MUCH different then.
2007-01-08 14:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I believe love is a two-way street. Anything one-sided is something I'd consider a crush, or infatuation at the most--and I HAVE had my fair share of THOSE. ;)
2007-01-06 03:04:19 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes and I went up to her and told her how I felt about her. She blew me off and went out with some other guy and began to tell everyone I was stalking her. High school is stupid.
2007-01-06 02:56:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes.
2007-01-06 04:25:26 · answer #6 · answered by Voodoid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know I did. At least they were very serious crushes at the time. I've gotten past them now.
2007-01-06 02:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, but I do have empathy for people.
2007-01-06 02:59:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah that happened once. i was a kid and he was.... nick carter (tada!). my first celebrity crush
2007-01-06 05:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and he lives in my imagination. an Imagination he is :)))
2007-01-06 15:13:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋