i have to go interstate for my sisters wedding but the problem is both her and my dad are fighting and screaming at me because they both want me to stay with them. (they live an hour away from each other) also my sister doesnt want me to drive my dad to the wedding as they had a falling out and she wants him to find his own way there (he doesnt drive) i dont know what to do i dont want to upset either.
oh ive tried comprimising by stay at her house half the time then at his the rest but they keep screaming about that to. help what do i do i dont want to offend anyone.
2007-01-05 18:52:13 · 15 answers · asked by mrs nevz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
put your foot down and say listen yu are both my blood i love you both and i am going to spend time with both of you in the way that is easiest for me and there is no more discussion about it period!
2007-01-05 18:56:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a doormat. Tell them that until they can settle their differences and start acting like adults, you will be staying at a hotel, or at another relative's house. Even if that doesn't solve the problem, at least you will know that you didn't offend anyone, and you didn't act like a pushover. Good luck getting them both to grow up, I feel bad for you. Also, drive your dad to the wedding, that whole drama has nothing to do with you. Tell your sister to get over it. Shame on them for putting you in the middle!
2007-01-05 18:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Charlie Girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should still bring your dad becaue just because she had a falling out with him has nothing to do with you and really you should stay at his house because you know that he doesnt drive so what other way is he going to get to the wedding next thing you know they both will be mad at you and won't want to do anything with you.
2007-01-05 18:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by ms.b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are either two things I would recommend. Either stay at your sisters, because it is her wedding and just leave your sisters early before hand to pick your dad up for the wedding or stay at a hotel. Also if you wanted you could stay at your sisters and then arrange for someone else to pick up your dad and bring him to the wedding. Did your sister invite your dad to the wedding? It is her wedding so if she did not invite him I would recommend not bringing him. I think the hotel situation would work out the best.
2007-01-05 18:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell both your sis and your dad to grow up .... take your dad to the wedding ... if he's been invited and has accepted you gotta make sure he gets there ... and spend as much time as you can stand with both .... or get a motel room and then blame the pair of them for making you spend so much on accomodation ...
family can be a real pain in the butt
2007-01-05 18:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by deadkelly_1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't step aside for this one. Call your sister and tell her that you're driving your dad to the wedding. End of discussion.
You have to get them back together. Who the hell else is going to give your sister away? Your mother? You?
2007-01-05 18:56:14 · answer #6 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, this is just my opinion of course. But i would definitely drive your dad to her wedding whether she likes it or not. She is being a bit childish about it considering he does not drive.
I would also resolve to spilt your time up between them both. They are being silly about it and you should just worry about yourself. No matter what some one isnt going to be happy so just do what you think is best. They shouldnt be angry at you for their own problems.
2007-01-05 18:57:16 · answer #7 · answered by missy28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to let the lord handle it and everything would be ok.I know it can be hard sometimes espeically if you have different parents living with you.Spend an hour with one,and the same with the other everyday when you have time and show them how much you love them.
2007-01-05 18:57:45 · answer #8 · answered by cuties_6chicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would do what you want to do if I was you because they shouldn't be fighting, I mean this is your sisters wedding her and differences have to be put aside for this, you do what your heart tells you to do thats all I can really say for this sorry
2007-01-05 18:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them to grow up and stop all their screaming and fighting or you just won't go. It sounds like you are being the one who is getting upset.
2007-01-05 18:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋