If everyone has a breaking point, how can you know what will break you? My little sis just got BEAT by a guy, if I go after him, my wife says sheel leave me.
I have an obligation to my wife and 2 daughters, if I seek vengence and get cought I'm out of my family, If i don't go I feel I'm not living up to my brotherly duties.
2007-01-05 18:33:13 · 37 answers · asked by morbidsmindtrip 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
thanks to every one with the voice of reson, and thanks to all who just want to kick some ***.
The cops got involved but he had more visable damage than she sid...My sis employed what I taught her...self defence. she will not go back to him but she did ask me to beat his ***.
2007-01-05 20:29:46 · update #1
One of the obligations you have to your wife, your daughters, AND your sister is to NOT react in this manner, thereby risking getting yourself thrown in jail for assault which would result in many negative things like possibly losing your job, therefore your house, cars, etc as well as a potential felony. Is that what you feel your brotherly duties are?
As a brother, your sister needs your support. Let her know how angry at him and afraid for her you are. That you're there for her in whatever and any way that she needs you for so that she can work through and past this. That you'll be her strength if she feels weak - like if she wants to forgive him or go back to him.
Do NOT put your @$$ in a sling over this. PLEASE.
2007-01-05 18:41:03 · answer #1 · answered by Lucy_Fur 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well that's the matter of controlling your rage, and knowing vengeance isn't the answer (though i feel ya man, cause i know if anyone touched my sister he's not gonna get killed, that's too easy...i'm cutting limbs and neutering). BUT..you can handle this in the most legal and moral sense....call the cops and get his *** arrested for assault. If she still has the scars, or she has proof, then his *ss can do time, and then you'll get your revenge when buck nasty and Anal monstrosity make him their punk B*tches.
The wife has a point to do that because she doesn't want YOU becoming the victim of rage if the guy has a gun and blasts you before you can touch him. BUT, i mean if she's honestly gonna LITERALLY gonna leave you? Ask her what SHE'D do if her MOMMA or SISTER or someone she seriously loved was gettin beat like that! WHAT IF IT WAS HER DAUGHTERS! Let me see her say don't whoop that mothaf*ckas *ss if they did that!
So take the 'legal' approach, it's the most sensible, but trust me man i feel you on that situation...it's a tough one indeed....but patience and control will be your ally, and hopefully it'll come out all good in the end...good luck to ya!
2007-01-05 18:39:14 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can kick the living **** out this guy, but you must be patient. Wait until after he goes through the court system. Then plan your *** whooping on this asshole where it doesn't look like your being irrational, and emotional. Instead make him look like he has the violence problem even though his *** was the one that got whooped. Killing him would do you less justice. Screwing his life up is better than ending it. Your family needs you. Your sister will need you after this as well, You aren't going to help them much behind bars.
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2007-01-05 18:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by ckgene 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My breaking point would be someone hurting one of my family members as is with you also. Listen to your wife as It may save you from doing something stupid and you going to jail. There is a time and place for everything and believe me that as_whole will get his, if not by you by someone else. Wait, If you happen to run into that sh_t while in a dark alley or out in the country or where ever alone with him, Oh well he deserves what he gets but don't go looking for it (remember your wife and kids). I won't tell!
2007-01-05 18:48:03 · answer #4 · answered by beamer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yikes! That's terrible. I totally understand what you're saying. But you have to think about your wife and kids, your wife is right, I would feel the same way if I were her. I know you just want to blow the brains out of this guy tho. Has he been arrested? Perhaps you will just have to stick to the "legal" route on this one. Just be there for your sis, support her. You don't have to go and put yourself and your loved ones in danger to be a good brother.
2007-01-05 18:39:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Here's a true story, from my Life. I was raised in a Military home, Dad was a 30 year Military man, so there was no other way for me but the Military. I wanted to be the best "****-Killing-Machine" ever and I got my wish!! 35 years later, I can still see their faces, their anguish, thier fear and for a couple of them, I can still smell their breath!! My hands are still covered in their blood, you just can't see it. Some day I'm going to die and when I do, I will be standing before God, with my dirty hands!! It is now, not worth the pain it has brought me in years past.
Mend your Sisters wounds and attend to her needs, as well as steering her away from guys like this last one. To Kill someone?? To Take thier Life from them?? NO!! It's wrong!!
2007-01-05 22:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by dontwobears@sbcglobal.net 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not go after this guy!!!! Is your sister still alive?? Tell her to put a restraining order on him and let the law handle this matter. Your wife and kids need you and what good would it do? So you kill the guy, He gets to die while you live the rest of your life in prison without your family who needs you. Keep your head right dude. Pray for your sister and do what you can to help her but stay right!
2007-01-05 18:41:37 · answer #7 · answered by magic101070 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is a difference between killing and beating someone up. I would not blame you if you wanted to kill this guy but don't kick his *** if you want put him in the hospital but do not screw up your own life. and even if you just beat him up you could face jail and stuff and that could stick hurt your own family.
Take some time and think about it maybe the police should handle this one.
2007-01-05 18:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by SummerRain Girl 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He beat your little sister its payback time if you shot him make sure its in the knee that way its just assault and not attempted murder Or break his fingers that way he cant make a fist to hit anybody with, If it was my sister I would did a hole some place it might take a week to dig but no one would find it EVER Or park your truck on his chest only for a little while! Nail gun his foot to the floor. If your wife descent under stand ask her what if it was your sister!!!!
2007-01-05 19:04:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOOK KEEP YOU HEAD ON STRATE. You have to much to loose being stupid. I do know how you feal My daughter was raped by hermothers brother and years later she is still trubled maby that is why she got with a man that raped there daughter( MY GRAND DAUGHTER) DO what you can to help your sister and hopfully she will press charges agenst this low life and he can be some ones little ***** in state pen but your first resposabillity is to your wife and daughters.You do no good to any one if you get yourself in jail I know it hirts but some times you just cant fix everything
2007-01-05 19:03:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋