My friend has been dating a married man. He has been having his cake and eating it too. His wife found out (she told her)and now he is furious with and won't see her. My friend is heartbroken, drinking herself into oblivion. She says she is "afraid that he won't come back and afraid he will come back". How can I help her?. Don't be judgmental. She knows she was wrong. She is hurting really bad. I don't want her to ruin her life over this. She is an alcoholic and was sober, working, and taking care of herself until she met him. What advice can you give?
2007-01-05 18:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dont worry about her bec she will leanrn for herself. Ur friend have ob viously fallen in love with the married man, thats why she reacted the way she acted... no control.
u cannot do anything to help her right now. she will get by herself and move on smarter in life.
we all do learn from our mistakes; but always better to learn from other;s
2007-01-05 18:13:09 · answer #1 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all married men should be a hands off policy to begin with. If he cheats on his wife with you he will cheat on you with someone else, eventually. tell your friend to snap out of it and find someone who is single and enjoys being with her and has the time to be with her, without anyone finding out and getting angry.
You are a great friend too. More people need friends like you..
2007-01-06 02:10:55 · answer #2 · answered by myninny54 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he wasn't a positive influence........point that out to her. He's not very commited, point that out, too. He'll cheat again. Most marriages that spring from infidelity do not last a year. Tell her to start off with a clean slate and avoid the guys with baggage.
2007-01-06 02:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by mojonah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Regrets! Only Lessons Learned?
Good Luck!
'-)
2007-01-06 02:04:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did she expect that he was going to do when she told on him? She needs to move on and find a single man_
2007-01-06 02:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she was tupid to tell her what did she think would happen don't sugar coated it she knew he was married and got herself it this mess.
2007-01-06 02:03:42 · answer #6 · answered by iseemen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be open minded
2007-01-06 02:18:51 · answer #7 · answered by WEN1988_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋