I go to the bar on occasion and guys want to buy me drinks. I don't think I'm very pretty. Why do these guys want to buy drinks for me and sometimes they carry on conversations with me and wink at me and make gestures that I asume is flirting. Is it possible that they think I'm easy and are just looking for sex or could they actually be interested in me?
2007-01-05 17:55:24 · 4 answers · asked by Becca 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I'm 23 and alot of times it seems like the only guys that hit on me are 40 and up. My dad's 44 and I would feel weird being with a guy my dad's age or my granddad's age.
Why do these kinda guys hit on me?
2007-01-05 18:13:25 · update #1
As a man I think both are possible. Some of us are only interested in sex, but others are honestly looking for a relationship. Also my experience is that most women think they're less attractive than they really are. Of course, I don't know what you look like, but it seems to be a general trend. :) You're probably prettier than you think.
2007-01-05 18:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Geoffrey S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, there are several possibilities...
you may be prettier than you think you are and these may be guys that are genuinely interested. hard to tell without actually knowing what kinds of things they say or how they act.
most likely, at the bar, they are flirting because you're female and not ideously ugly. it seems like anymore bars are full of guys who think that if you smile at them you are giving them permission to try to steal third base.
i'd say, make it clear you don't play tonsil hockey and are not going to invite them over to your place for a nightcap, and if you think you might be interested in them, stay open to those conversations and see what happens.
2007-01-05 18:03:50 · answer #2 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They want sex or their interested. If you talk to them it wouldn't be hard to figure out what their really after. Just don't get too drunk and pass out before you get an idea.
2007-01-05 17:59:37 · answer #3 · answered by Angela 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think some think you are easy and some are actually interested :) be careful and good luck.
2007-01-05 17:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by tigress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋