After orgasm, i want nothing to do with women or "relationship" thoughts. After like maybe 10-15 minutes it changes to a point. Is there anyway to live constant the few seconds and minutes after an orgasm where women mean nothing and you have 0 interest in love or sex?
2007-01-05 17:49:47 · 7 answers · asked by Bizzy B 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I wanted to add, this is particularly in reference to masturbation. I understand when you love someone and you're with them the feeling is different.But like i said, i want to be in the 10 mins after period all the time so i don't have to ever deal with female drama or all the stuff that comes with it.
2007-01-06 00:20:24 · update #1
It is completely normal to lose interest after orgasm. It is because of what goes on in your brain before and after orgasm. Please read the article I listed as my source. I think you'll find it very informative.
As to your second question, it made me smile. Do you have any idea how much money you would make if you invented a pill that could keep guys in that state? Think about it - freedom. Men would no longer be forced by women to buy jewelry, put up with PMS and basically spend so much of their waking time figuring out how to get laid.
Until that magic pill is invented, though, men will remain enslaved to testosterone. Yes, there is that 10 minute period after sex when you truly are free. But then it creeps back. And by morning it's back to square one.
2007-01-05 19:03:21 · answer #1 · answered by lillyth17 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because if you are just doing it for the pleasure of sex (the raw animal instinct) and there is nothing else between you, you may feel a little "dirty" or even ashamed. In nature once the male mates they often move on (or sometimes the female kills and eats them). If all you need is the physical joy of sex you can probably just find a good whore or sex toy. It wouldn't be messing with anyone's emotions that way and be more honest. Or you can find a woman you want to be with whether or not you are having sex at that moment.
2007-01-05 17:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
i bet you the next day or even that night or morning you will remember the sex and you get horny thinking about it.Its pretty normal for most males I think ,but if you are serious about good sex and enough of it you need to get over this..remember its for both of you..If you are satisfied ,perhaps then she isnt .. start thinking about this.. even though maybe you arent turned on at that moment try thinking about the way she feels because next time you are feeling a little frisky and she may be the only one around..and she will say not tonight i have a headache lol
2007-01-05 17:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lol.. Hey i am the same way and this is coming from a chick. After sex i simply walk out of the room and usually watch t.v. or go on the computer. I don't think there is anything wrong with it. I am not the type to cuddle.. say do you love me 8957439857 times after sex. I got what I wanted and its done... My boyfriend don't seem to care.
2007-01-05 17:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You are having sex for pleasure only. You don't seem to be able to have a relationship with a woman. Maybe you should talk to someone about this problem.
2007-01-05 17:53:04 · answer #5 · answered by Tenn Gal 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
its because Testosterone goes to a natural low and it stops stimulating you
2007-01-05 17:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by nasH 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's pretty weird. Maybe you should see a counselor about this.
2007-01-05 17:53:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋