we are both 18. i am a catholic and he is a hindu. we love each other alot and we dont want to break up. but his parents will not allow him to marry me. ofcourse we want to get married when the time comes but he does not want to ditch or nreak my heart at that time saying that his parents will not allow. but we love each other alot and just cant think of a breakup.
we also know that it will be very difficult to seperate after another 7-8 years. we don wat to have a run away marriage also because neither our parents or we will be happy.
we just cant think of any thing that can be done.
please help as soon as possible otherwise we will have to break our realationship which will be very painfull for both of us.
pleaseeeeeeeeeeee
2007-01-05 17:04:29 · 7 answers · asked by @ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Marriage is a union between a man and a woman, not the parents. Forget Mommy and Daddy, they are not getting married. You two are.
If your boyfriend is that spineless that he cannot make his own decisions, you should find one who can stand on his own.
2007-01-05 17:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by Gabzilla 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may not seem so right now, but, being married to some one with different religious beliefs is difficult. And both of your parents probably know this. If the two of you can choose one religion for yourselves and your future children it will be much easier to make a marriage work long term.
2007-01-06 01:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Aviator1013 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This may not be an answer you want to hear...but you HAVE to believe in the same God or it will never work out with the 2 of you(personal expirience)! you are adults and can do what you want right? But if you really want to marry with the blessing of his parents all I can say is talk with them and good luck!
2007-01-06 01:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by peace2all 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you are both 18 you don't need parents permission. Talk to his parents maybe you guys lack communications and his parents doesn't trust you enough.
2007-01-06 01:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even though its really nice that you two are listening to your parents opinions, my advice is to not do that. if you two love each other and you will be happy together, then that is all that matters. if his family cant accpet you (or vice versa) then they aren't acting like your family.
basically, you need to make yourself happy, not your parents, and if that means marrying the love of your life, then do it!!
good luck!!
2007-01-06 01:10:47 · answer #5 · answered by sophia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, 18 is way too young to get married. You're so young and you have your whole life ahead of you. try dating around for awhile and if you realize that you still love him. go for it. Tell his/your parents to go to hell. Its between you and your man, no other person should get in between. I think family is super duper important but if they love you guys, they should understand and accept the person you fell in love with.
2007-01-06 01:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by rockabilly.betty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey i m hindu too..even mi parents don;t want me to marry any1 else than hindu and all the people is who is sayign tell his parents to go to hellthan excuse you!!
2007-01-06 01:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by gujucutiie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋