i cant seem to figure that out - cause we ended to bad terms: but there is no getting over him , and i dont know why!!
could u please post - tell me why and tell me what i should do?
2007-01-05 17:03:40 · 3 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
you're thinking about it too much. you're trying to talk yourself out of feelings but feelings cannot be controlled by reason. just accept how you feel, stop trying to fight it and go on with your life. hopefuly, in time, you will realize that while you weren't looking, you got over him.
2007-01-05 17:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by gwenwifar 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he symbolizes something to you, something that you need to work on. Try thinking of his bad points, and think about whether they are linked to your parents in some way. So, perhaps he was cold and distant, and your father was, too. Then you need to work on your feelings around your dad, not this guy. Or, perhaps he was of another race, and your parents hated that, so really you're obsessed with him as a way of rebelling against your parents. Try looking at this and see if it fits.
2007-01-06 05:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Even bad habits are hard to break.
2007-01-06 01:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by badabingbob 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋