2007-01-05 16:15:30 · 12 answers · asked by dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if you're asking how to fix it then it may be harder than you think because they may not trust you enough to go back to you but you still should try to get off drugs before they ruin your life even more or cause your death.
Go to a drug rehab center and get help if you dont think you can quit cold turkey although they say people who quit cold turkey will be most likely to stay off drugs because they know how to handle the cravings.
I was addicted to heroin as well as other drugs and when i met my girl i knew she wouldnt put up with drugs in her life and right then i knew i needed to quit. You need to have somebody you can turn to and talk to especially during your cravings to help take your mind off of them..try using drugs less and less often until you dont feel the need for them anymore. You can do without them..you just have to stay strong and fight off the cravings. Get some help...show that you want to overcome the addiction and maybe your life will turn itself back around.
2007-01-07 15:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by JMan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you definitely messed it up if you put a drug addiction before the importance of your marriage.
2007-01-06 00:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so when you say messed up, is it over for good ?was there a Divorce? because now that you have confessed your problem you can work on fixing you and if your spouse is understanding and has the unconditional love that your vows are suppose to carry ,then should be willing to see you through the recovery process and work on the repair of the marriage,Good Luck and God Bless
2007-01-06 02:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey buddy been there u can live through it u need o get help do not get involved with someone else just to ear there heart out u have no idea what a drug addiction puts somene that loves u through
2007-01-06 06:53:18 · answer #4 · answered by terry o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get clean for yourself, to repair the damage, or to find a new partner. People make mistakes. It is what they do afterwards that matters most. Forgive yourself. Learn from it. Then move forward! Good luck!
2007-01-06 00:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My 'ex' did the same. Important word here is 'EX'. Without more details or a more detailed question Im not sure what kind of answer you're looking for!!!
2007-01-06 00:19:27 · answer #6 · answered by giggles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
admitting you have a problem is the first step now get some help_
2007-01-06 00:19:03 · answer #7 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you know what contributed to it.
2007-01-06 15:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by nickle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no question about it you messed up!
2007-01-06 00:17:41 · answer #9 · answered by amylynn1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you doing something about it?
2007-01-06 00:29:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋