well..my best friend usualy tease me with him and i know that somehow she is hurt,, i dont like to hurt her feelings so i kept on ignoring the boy,, and now i think that the boy hates me for doing that... what will i do?!?!... pls.. help!!
2007-01-05 15:46:05 · 8 answers · asked by lovehurts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes...pls listen to the others...frenship comes before boys...if u know from the start that ur fren likes the guy and she will be hurt, then dun do anything...and since the guy hates u, why bother to make urself. ur fren and the guy more miserable by doing something? it is not worth it to lose a fren over a guy whom u are probably goin to lose some day...it is really not worth it esp. if the gal is ur best fren.
I have a same problem, only that i was the gal who was hurt. my fren has rejected the guy since then and we are still close like sisters can ever be...i admit that there might be some changes in our frenship as in we are more careful ard each other, but i believe that it will pass and we will still be close frens and sis the way we were b4 the whole incident happened.
So, my advise is really to be a good fren to ur fren, and dun ever let a guy destroy a frenship that is God-given...coz he is sooo not worth it...
2007-01-05 16:41:51 · answer #1 · answered by poohbaby2212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys come and go but friends are forever is the appropriate response for this Question. It's better to have your friends than some silly boy you will propably brake up with within a month. Also think about it ..if you liked some boy and your friend got with him would you want to be her friend. Other boys will come along.
2007-01-05 15:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by Angela D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now I think your friend is more important to you than the boy. Even if you do like him, that relationship probably won't last as long as your friendship could. So I vote for leaving the boy alone.
2007-01-05 15:52:16 · answer #3 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't all that into you if he ignores you, he's does not want to become in touch. it somewhat isn't any longer that he does not such as you, it somewhat is only that he does not see you as being his lady pal. And if the guy continues to be on his ex, he isn't worth it slow. flow on and locate somebody who's good sufficient for you; no longer somebody who is going to be drowning interior the previous, you're too good for that.
2016-11-26 23:10:22 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your real friend she would let you two be together without caring. This happened to me too and my friend was mad for a day then she got over it. If you're sure you like him go for him. If you're afraid to lose your friend then don't. I think you should take him even if you lose your ,"friend."
2007-01-05 16:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by Aly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make sure the guy actually likes you, and if he really does then you should somehow tell him that your friend likes him and also tell him that's why you were ignoring him -to not hurt your friend.
2007-01-05 15:50:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick your friend girls are vicious and she will start the gossip mill if you even look at him the wrong way
2007-01-05 16:33:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
never EVER EVER EVER EVER choose a boy before a friend
that never turns out okay
2007-01-05 15:50:50 · answer #8 · answered by brina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋