My best friend is dating my cousin and I don't agree with it. The reason being is that I know how my cousin is, I know he is useing her and her family. I have tried to tell her but all she says is that she don't wont to her any negitive things about him. I am also afraid of losing my best friend. I love her to death and don't want to see her get hurt but I have no clue on what to do!
2007-01-05 15:09:20 · 10 answers · asked by Its Me 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just be there for her when it all crumbles to the ground around her.. Do not say I told you so just say that no matter what you will be there for her.. she has to learn these lessons about love all on her own... and beleive you will have many of these lessons ahead of you. If you are her friend then prove that to her You gave her your oppinion now she is makeing her bed and she will be the one who will have to lie in it when it is said and done... that is just how false love and life goes...
2007-01-05 15:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by Autumns Destany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should find some proof to support your words before start telling her all the negative things about your cousin. if you cousin is not a good man. of cos' he will defend himself and act innocent in front of your best friend. Making your best friend fall apart from you. Should stay put and see how things go.. and get the evidences.
2007-01-05 23:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Janep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing.
If you keep telling your friend not to date your cousin...she may resent you and as a rebellion have your cousin turn on you. Unfortunately, she is going to have to learn the hard way when the time comes that she is used. After that, she may take into consideration what you have warned her about all along and then, who knows...your friendship could be stronger.
2007-01-05 23:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are both adults, I recommend you stay out of it. The more pushy you will become, the worse it will get, Let her find out on her own. You've done all you can. Step back and when they will break up, if you really love her then you will be there for her, without conditions or judgements. that's what good friends are for.
2007-01-05 23:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that!
tell her that u r my bestfriend n i will never lie to u! i hate to c u get hurt. n if u wanna find out the hard way or if u wanna cry at the end then go right ahead. thats all u can say to her. the rest is her choice! hope she make a good choice!
2007-01-05 23:12:49 · answer #5 · answered by roxy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sound like you are to involved.you have warned your friend now stay out of it as when things go south you can always rub it in and say told you so.
2007-01-05 23:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
is she really your best friend? if yes how come she neglect ypur word. remind her of your friendship again and tell the reality about your cousin. it will do..........
2007-01-05 23:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by shil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she won't listen to you then she'll just have to learn the hard way
2007-01-05 23:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by Malek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to leave it alone not your place to do anything its up to them not anyone else
2007-01-05 23:13:51 · answer #9 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus let i be
2007-01-05 23:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by USER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋