I get tensed whenever I am required to put signature on any important documents like bank cheques, application forms etc. My signature gets distorted because of this tension and this creates a lot of problems in the future. More over, I am not able to put similar signatures if I am required to sign on two places even on the same page of a paper/ document. This leads to a lot of difficulties to me when I am required to draw money from bank by cheques etc.. This also leads in reducing my confidence level. I would request for your kind suggestion to come out of this personal problem.
2007-01-05 14:48:12 · 6 answers · asked by Gireesh 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's fear of commitment.
2007-01-05 14:57:24 · answer #1 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is due to anxiety and insecurity. the main reason is more than confidence level. it is about things you heard, or movie you watched about people got cheated because they signed. That lurked into your mind and it became fear.
You should try to understand the problem first. Before signing anything, read the fine line. You will just have to overcome this fear and anxiety by signing more. Do it on the papers more and perhaps your fear will gradually go away
2007-01-05 14:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe that may just be a fear of being "responsible" over what you perceive is a sense of "signing your life away".
its about mistrust and fear of being screwed over in some way.
look at any issues in your past and see if that makes sense; may be some things you have to resolve...
either way, what you can do to fight it is ensure you ask all questions before you are required to sign. if you have doubts, clarify them. that should help you relax a bit. sometimes you just have to trust in it. think "hey if everyone else can sign and be ok, i should be too"...but if it gets worse, see someone who can help such as therapist or dr.
good luck
2007-01-05 14:58:47 · answer #3 · answered by suede 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it common, you're no longer the only in this international with one in each and every of those issue. some situations I too have this issue. it somewhat is with the aid of stress and you'd be waiting to conquer it progressively. to initiate with, attempt to sign the records/cheques removed from others sight so as which you will have a secure feeling and circumvent thinking that others ought to be watching you doing it.
2016-11-26 23:03:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a check card/debit card. You can just use your pin number instead of signing anything. It's not a fix all but it's a start.
2007-01-05 14:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by RelayLover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am just as important as anyone else on this planet. Write this out 1000 times.
2007-01-05 14:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋