ok im almost 14 yrs old and my dad left me and my mom when i was 8 yrs old one day he called and i was 11 yrs old and it was the next day after my birthday and he said how old i was i got so mad but w/e so when i turned 13 he didnt call and he didnt call to say merry christmas or happy new year. one day he said he was gonna call me the next day and he never called now my aunt called my mom to tell her that my dad wanted to talk to me.
what should i do?
2007-01-05 14:46:44 · 6 answers · asked by T3ARZ 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Try not to base your actions on other's opinions. You're the only one who knows what's best for you - not parents, family, strangers. If you want (or need) answers, then go for it, if you're comfortable with it - but don't just do it because *he* wants to talk to you. Give it time, relax, and take it step by step. Good luck in making your decision!
2007-01-05 15:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a number for him and tell him you will call him tomorrow.
Seriously. Do you want a dad that keeps popping in one day every couple of years?
Get the number, wait a month and call him and ask him how it feels to be abandoned. That just might wake him up.
2007-01-05 22:56:56 · answer #2 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have the conversation and see what he wants. if he's jerking you around then draw a line and tell him that you are not some yo-yo. But if he's wanting to tell you he's sorry, or that he's dying, you'd have one of the bigest regrets any life could have if you didn't see him.
It's sad to say, but you have to be the adult in this relationship.
2007-01-05 22:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Summer Sunset McGee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly i would just not have any contact cause all hes doin letting you think oh hes there for me and then the next day hes gone again
im really sorry about your dad but maybe its for the best
2007-01-06 00:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him. Ask him why he left. You need answers or you will never be able to move past this.
2007-01-05 22:50:44 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
aww i'm sorry. I think maybe you should talk to him but tell him that he cant do that anymore and he cant just randomly call whenever.
2007-01-06 14:49:00 · answer #6 · answered by bluecolouredflames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋