molested or physical?

Question

well when i was around 19 i was going in for my physical im in athletics so im used to physicals but this one didnt feel right it was a new docter becasue i jsut moved and we came in and told me to put on the dress lookin thing and i did but he didnt leave the room thought it was weird but didnt mention anything then insteasd of just reaching and doing the physical (you know what i mean) he lifted up the hole dress thing examined it with his eyes and felt or masaged it with his hands i asked if somthing was wrong and he said no then he told me to lie down on my stomach he told me i was getting a prostate exam i thought i was to young but i thought well hes the docter but he stuck his fingers up there and he started pushing in and out once or twice i was partially erect and a littel prefluid was on my penis so he wiped it with a cotten swab he asked me to take off my boxers and give him the dress looking thing he gave me a blanket i then got dressed and left feeling to embaressed 2 talk

Answer 1

I am sitting here talking to my husband and he just said that if he was 'massaging your crank' it is definitely wrong!! If he was feeling your abdominal area...that is normal...they are just feeling for hernias, etc.
The rest sounded pretty normal...the only wierd thing is that he didn't leave when you were dressing and undressing....I would talk to your folks and make a complaint on the doc.

Also on a lighter note....:) If you felt two hands on your shoulders while he was probing...then DEFINITELY make a complaint!!! That is just wrong!!!!

Answer 2

Well, unfortunately I would have to side with those who say you were assaulted.

Prostate exams are a valid medical procedure. However, they generally aren't preformed on folks your age (usually they're when they're much older). I've never heard of from my friends nor experienced one myself and I'm 19 now.

The "massage" part of the exam, however, sounds like a typical hernia check. My doctor uses the gown things too; though he leaves the room when I change (I've heard of some doctors just turning around instead of leaving). However, the prostate exam, especially without warning, is unwarranted

Answer 3

Young man, I'm sorry to say that you were molested. I feel so bad. That filthy pig! I've been through this with family and it brings up the hatred in me. You have N-O-T-H-I-N-G to be embarrassed about. You, being a trusting person, didn't have any idea this MF, a professional, would do something out of the ordinary to you. Never go back to this disgusting pervert again. And I would report him to the American Medical Association (AMA). The tel. no. should be in the phone book. Again, I'm so sorry.

Answer 4

sorry kid but you were molested. At 19 there is no reason for a prostate exam and the way he "performed" it was not the way such exams are done.
He should be reported before more people are hurt and hopefully lose his license as a result.

Answer 5

I have had this done when I was thirteen, and same with a friend whom had a different doctor, so I believed it to be normal myself.

Answer 6

What a crook doctor he should be fired! I think he tried to sexual assault you while trying to perform an exam.

Answer 7

Typical prostrate exam. They all start at about that age.

Answer 8

Get over it, all girlz on here are going to tell you it was wrong, and all guys will tell you its normal, get over it.

Answer 9

GET OVER IT

Answer 10

i dont know wtf that was but but he wiped your d*ck thats suspect