2007-01-05 14:26:59 · 76 answers · asked by san 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
obviously she is not happy no affense but maybe u should talk to her and work things outt
2007-01-05 14:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You wife can complain because there is a big problem with your marriage or with you or maybe the problem lies within her. Some people are only able to focus on the negative side of everything and actually complain more from habit than anything else. What you need to do is suggest couples counselling so that you can discuss with a person who is completely neutral to your relationship what the problems are and how to deal with them. This way you will be able to find out if the complaining is actually justified or whether there is another underlying problem with her. Good luck to both of you.
2007-01-05 14:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better to live on the roof than with a nagging wife. (Proverbs)
This means: if there are too many problems in a relationship that are left unresolved, then there will be one that complains and a man should seek to make his wife happy. No one wants to be the one to do everything, or be unappreciated so if you don't want to put up with complaining then eliminate the reasons to complain.
This is a biblical principal.
2007-01-05 14:37:30 · answer #3 · answered by Knuckledragger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does she complain about? About life in general? If so, maybe you can encourage her to make changes in her life so that she can be happier, and thus complain less. If she is complaining about you and your relationship, then maybe it's time to examine whether or not those complaints are valid. If it means either you or her (or both) need to make some changes in the things that you do or in certain behaviors you exhibit, then maybe her complaining is her way of communicating her dissatisfaction. If after changes are made and she still complains, then it may be that your wife needs to examine for herself what exactly will make her happy and then decide how to remedy the situation. Sometimes it's not about you.
2007-01-12 06:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by little_ms.knowitall 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK!! though a lot of men think tht women were born with a complaining nerve in the brain, i beg to differ. When a baby is hungry because thy cant talk they cry, and until you fix the problem he/she wont quiet down. Just like women. NO matter the problem, she has one, you might want to sit her down and talk about what's going on with her. Most time women complain about crazy ****, but tht's what's on the surface, if the magazine is flipped face side down all the time and it bothers her, sit down with her and listen, the problem is there, she just wants to see if you care enough to get to it.!!:-)
Alot of men ignore there wives, and then are on here asking"why did she cheat", not saying its OK to do so,but ignoring your wife sends the wrong signal to her, tht you dont really care, and she's worthless now. I would sit, and talk, really; a heart to heart would do just fine.
take my advice,
( an ignored wife,)
2007-01-11 23:11:31 · answer #5 · answered by Beautynbeyond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From a woman's point of view, it depends on what she complains about. If it's something very small that doesn't need to be argued about then Yes, something bigger is going on but if she clearly states her problem and expects something more from you, then No and Yes.
What you need to do is sit down with her and ask her what's really bothering her. Listen to her and talk out a solution for the both of you.
2007-01-05 15:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what she thinks is a problem.
She a neat freak and you are a slob, no problem get off your tail end and do some cleaning. This works the opposite way too.
Does she always ask things in a question form, if so, that means she thinks there is a problem. Dig for more details.
Be the man, say what you really think.
Like when wives ask "does this make me look fat?" tell the truth, some clothes do make her look fat.
2007-01-05 14:39:48 · answer #7 · answered by fiacat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there is more to this story. Need more info. A woman does not complain for the fun of it. Are you listening when she is talking?? That might help, then you both can figure out what can be done. Women continue to complain because Men do not know how to listen. Try that approach & you might get somewhere.
2007-01-12 07:52:39 · answer #8 · answered by LIL BIT 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is probably something very simple at the heart of her complaining. Have a long conversation with her tonight, wake her up if shes asleep, bring her some coffee, and ask her to tell u everything thats going on in her head, if shes where she wants to be in life, and what you can do to be the best partner you can be, she will respect you so much more for trying.
2007-01-05 14:31:29 · answer #9 · answered by jimckinnon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no maybe you just need to communicate more, is there any particular reason she complains, or do you think she has nagging wife syndrome. Or are you making too much of it. I think you should speak to her about how you feel, and see what she has to say, have an open mind and discuss it rationally, and hopefully there is a simple resolution to your problem, thats if there is a problem!
2007-01-13 13:56:40 · answer #10 · answered by Tiria N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you should sit down and have a good talk. Some women just complain alot and some have reasons.
2007-01-13 13:49:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋