Why does this always happen to me?
How come bad things always happen 2 me? I got a rumor spread about me around school that I'm gay. Just because I act shy! Now, I'll NEVER have a girlfriend or even friends! Middle school stinks!
2007-01-05 14:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by thelonelyone959595 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tommy, school does suck!..I am 37 now, have a great life and a great job..I am telling you this because I want you to see that there is hope..when I was 13(6th grade) I not only started my first period ever in PE class in front of everyone, I also had an odd thing happen to me..I started to develop in my left breast before my right..I had a huge lump on one side...I went to the dr and the worst thing I ever heard was "oh, she is just developing" at that pt in my life, some altering flesh disease would have been better than that embarrasing visit..know what I mean? they called me mongoloid. I dont mean to freak you out or anything..my point is that school kids can be cruel and you should not let it bother you..it will pass, it will get better and it will fade.
IM me if you ever need to..I have 3 kids and I know a few things about getting by..my best wishes to you.
Kimmie
2007-01-05 14:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by crimson_ghost03 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
When you're in middle school everything seems like it stinks but it will all pass trust me. We all get teased and have rumors spread around about us. Just ignore the people that are doing this and they'll get tired of teasing you. People like that get off to making you upset. If you show them that it doesn't bother you then they will stop because there's no more "fun" in it.
It will pass and things will get a lot better!
2007-01-05 14:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tommy, I'm sorry this is happening to you. Some kids are just cruel. They think these things are cute and don't realize these games they play involve real people's lives. If you don't have anyone at school to hang with, what about finding a hobby outside of school. There is Karate, YMCA Basketball, Soccer. Just to name a few. That way you will find something you enjoy doing and you'll have a chance to meet new people. Good Luck. It will get better!
2007-01-05 14:26:10 · answer #3 · answered by LaurenElyse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because of the fact the grass is often greener on the different factor. you're in school and additionally you will possibly be able to't wait to get out, thinking you're gonna have a blast. incredibly however, you do not. yet you fantasize approximately summer season because of the fact it is distinctive, it basically comes as quickly as a three hundred and sixty 5 days. You spend 10 months in school, working so complicated, the seen a destroy seems SO pleasing. hence for the reason which you're looking forward to it lots you hype it up and make it look "so completely outstanding". whilst it is incredibly not. notwithstanding, come to think of of it, summer season is noticeably good. it is sunny, you circulate away, you spot friends greater and maximum heavily you have freedom. once you're back in school, you would be wanting it to be summer season back! i comprehend I consistently do...besides the shown fact that, I in no way lose interest for the time of summer season. :)
2016-10-30 03:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work in a middle school. Trust me - this will fade away. Middle school does stink; kids are mean. Don't worry; this will blow over and they'll be picking on someone else. Act like it doesn't bother you.
2007-01-05 14:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anne B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Sweetie,
Dont worry about it. I know it sucks. But how long is Middle school? Only...about...3 years? It will be over before you know it. High school is where life really begins. You will forget this trash soon enough.
Bye Kiddo.
2007-01-05 15:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
believe me, Im living the life. It sucks. Everyone else had a bf/gf and I dont! ERR! I have a lot of friends but thats it. i always get stuck with the dumba.ss teachers and the bithiest kids in my classes. errrrr
*emails me if ya weant to chat* im 13
2007-01-05 14:45:26 · answer #7 · answered by cul8rhote 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
middle school are ALWAYS the worst years...i mean..
i hated it.
high school gets a million times better.
you meet new ppl and the old ppl forget what happened in middle school...
itll all be ok.
rumors are a ***** but almost everyone gets em
good luck...
2007-01-05 14:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Middle school sucks for most-sorry to say.I was skinny,had braces,was akward and didn't dress like the popular girls-and I survived-you will too.You will be ok!
2007-01-05 14:27:37 · answer #9 · answered by mama of 2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and next week they will spread a rumor about someone else and you will be forgotten. thats just middle school, kid.
2007-01-05 15:04:55 · answer #10 · answered by johnsmommy0920 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋