2007-01-05 14:16:59 · 11 answers · asked by Un-Happy Gilmore 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My dad treats me like crap!!! He puts his girlfriend before me. I live with my mother. He has always called me vile horrible names like b**** and fat*** since i was about 8 years old. Ive been in the hospital before and he has cussed me even when im o sick i cant hold my head up.
2007-01-05 14:33:09 · update #1
I llive in N.C
2007-01-05 14:34:41 · update #2
I live with my mom and she is the best shes always been great.
2007-01-05 15:04:45 · update #3
I don't know how old you are, but I can relate to you. I'm in my 50's and I had a father who called me terrible names as well. Much similar to the ones your dad calls you, but some horribly worse. It hurts, deeply, I know, I've been there. You never forget. The one thing you have going for you is that your parents are divorced. Mine were not, so I couldn't get away from him and his words. I would suggest that you stay away from him completely. Just don't call him, don't go see him and don't talk to him if he calls you to say terrible things to you. Your close to your mom, so tell her how you feel. I'm sure she will agree that it is not healthy for you to be around him. If you can stay away, then do so. You don't need anyone much less your own father calling you terrible names. Some people think, "oh, just ignore it". Well it's not that easy when it is coming from a father. I don't know anything about divorcing your dad, but I'm sure there has to be something you could do legally. Just not sure what it is. Sorry. I just wanted to tell you, your not alone. Many of us out in this world have had the same treatment or worse. It's not easy.
2007-01-05 15:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just quit going to see him. If you are a teenager, I don't think any judge is going to make your mom physically force you to go. Besides, you always be 'busy' with school and friend stuff on the weekends.
The best bet is to call your dad, tell him love him but you do not enjoy the way you are treated over there so you have made the decision not to go anymore.
Quit going and if your dad is upset it will be up to him to take your mom back to court (so it won't cost her the money to go reopen the case and what not)--I seriously doubt he will b/c it'd be a waste of his money.
2007-01-05 23:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by kathylouisehall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am hoping you mean that you don’t like the woman your father is married to. I will assume that and say this, tell your father how you feel about this woman. Tell him why this bothers you. If you are sincere, he will listen. Divorce may not be the answer you get, but the problem may be resolved.
2007-01-05 22:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by spoiledbrat30x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really hate what is happening call protective services on his a** and go with someone else or even a different... better family member... I'm sorry he's a D**k and you deserve better. Remember he's the slime not you. Be a good kid and call family you trust...not just any family.. only people that will listen to you and also know God will answer all your prayers!
2007-01-05 22:58:41 · answer #4 · answered by jmilil 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why do you want to divorce him? he is still going to be your father no matter what.... you think a legal document is going to change whats running through your blood.... don't waste the time or money.... it's not worth it... if your that angry at your father just don't speak to him until you feel ready too.... give it time....
i understand you... your hurt and offended by your fathers action... he was never there for you emotionally and he put you down.... he's a j**k.... even so divorcing him will not change anything... ignoring him and not paying mind to him is best.... and also praying for him and for yourself... so that GOD can change him and heal your hurt.... I'm sorry you had to go through that.... there is GOD who loves you... JESUS died for our sins so that we can be saved... give your life to the LORD... trust me it's the best thing you can do.... GOD BLESS YOU and i hope the best for you.... take care
2007-01-05 22:36:10 · answer #5 · answered by hazel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You live with your mother so get over yourself. If you don't want to visit with your dad don't. You DO get a choice in the matter.
2007-01-05 23:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can take care of your food, shelter, clothing, medical & dental expenses 100% without any help from your father go see a lawyer.
2007-01-05 22:22:00 · answer #7 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my father always bought jewelry for his 4 gf's and none for me.i ways always with my mom.my dad would curse at me to but now things are calm. he isn't dating. just don't listen to him respect him just hate what he does wrong. Ive been threw this to..in case you feel like talking you know how to contact me OK
2007-01-06 17:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by ticachic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think that you can do that anymore. im trying to terminate the rights of my ex husband to my daughter but a lawyer told me he could only do that if 'we' were giving her up for adoption. just dont see you father anymore. unless your state laws are different, thats all you can do
2007-01-05 22:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. I'm not from West Virginia so I'm not familar with their laws. Sorry...
2007-01-05 22:21:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋