why?
2007-01-05 14:05:32 · 14 answers · asked by Juan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i have been married a long time, and yes, i have lied about where i have been. but just a few times, and nothing serious, i have said i was on my way home when i was still checking out at the store, stuff like that.
2007-01-05 14:09:46 · answer #1 · answered by honeyc73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm not married and probably far from it but atleast i can give you another view point? Does your hubby have to know where you are 24-7? Then again I don't know why you'd have to lie to him. Personally i'd never dream of even touching a possesive guy. But if your cheating then its time to think about a divorce.
2007-01-05 22:10:02 · answer #2 · answered by lauren s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have once, I lied to him telling him I was at my mother's house. I was really at the mall. The only reason I lied is because I hate to hear him telling me how much I should spend.
2007-01-05 22:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by SexyLove910 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He hates that I shop for clothes and whatnot, therefore, if I am at a clothing store, I tell him I'm somewhere else. Then when he says, thats a nice dress, I've never seen you wear it, is it new? Im like, no baby, I have had this dress for years, and as a matter of fact, I "have" worn it, dont you remember? Gezz, you always forget!! Well then, tell me how good I look in it AGAIN.
2007-01-05 22:52:01 · answer #4 · answered by Leyanis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In part because it is none of his business.
If you say where you have been then it will start another round of questions.
So IF for example I stop by the shoe store and I were to tell him, I get the dreaded "NOT ANOTHER PAIR OF SHOES look" so If I were to go there, I would just say I stopped by the bookstore or library.
If I go to visit my friend who he thinks (and is justified in thinking) is a slut, then he thinks I am cheating on him so if I say I am going to visit another friend, it is not a big deal.
SO I guess to answer your question, I lie to keep the peace
2007-01-05 22:10:19 · answer #5 · answered by kissmymiddlefinger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I try not to lie to my partner. it will come back somehow and honesty + trust in a relationship is a must. otherwise, it you need to lie, there must be some other problems between you and your partner, and you are both heading to a very negative place.
2007-01-05 22:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by artist-oranit.com. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope i dont haft to lie once you tell a lie you will tell another to cover one so whats the point in lieing it only gets you in trouble more than what you would have
2007-01-05 22:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not so much as lied as i didn't tell the hole story.
2007-01-05 22:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by ~just_jd~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will not marry him if I have to lie.
2007-01-05 22:26:54 · answer #9 · answered by azngurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to date ... no reason to lie
2007-01-05 22:09:11 · answer #10 · answered by Chele 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋