Is it just looking at the women or learning the moves so you can use them on your wife? I know this is a stupid question but I want to know if you guys look at the women because she looks better than your wife and so your fantasizing about her or if you just want to learn new moves? My husband is always wanting to do things w/me that are things I wouldnt dream of and i know he saw them somewhere and I am just not that kinky kind of girl. My friend told me to ask.
2007-01-05 13:41:50 · 10 answers · asked by 2wild4u 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the kinkiest I ever got was when my husband and i used chocolate syrup it was a waterbed so it cleaned up easily. Do any of you use syrup as part of the action?
2007-01-05 13:54:18 · update #1
My husband doesnt watch porn anymore that I know of he use to and it did bother me to me he was watching it to pleasure himself b/c he wasnt satisfied w/ me but now I ubderstand you men a little better. So I guess i need to spice it up a little myself thats if he can stay awake long enough thankyou everyone especially you men I just thought you guys looked at it b/c your not happy w/ your woman now we all know.
2007-01-05 13:59:54 · update #2
to be honest about this for me it is seeing the sex of a couple and how they preform it and in my mind i try to better the couple on the screen.it's like someone getting into your own mind and now you got to make it better then they do.most men just want to be better in bed because the wife is no longer interested in sex or love making anymore same old same old so the movies give them idea's so if you want him to stop show a little more attention to him and it should help
2007-01-05 13:52:18 · answer #1 · answered by yum_two 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons for men to watch porn. Sometimes they do want to catch new moves to try. Other times its about a fantasy. Maybe your guy just felt like having his wildest fantasy portrayed in front of him. If you arent as kinky as you say then he probably knows it and doesnt want to make you uncomfortable by asking you to "play along". However if he is making you uncomfortable by asking you to do certain positions then its not the things hes watching and learning from you should be concerned with. Porn is everywhere! he will see it no matter what. You need to communicate to him how you feel about the things hes asking you to do and then come to a compromise.......thats love. I watch porn because it gives me the adrenaline rush of seeing two people go at it or sometimes I just want to see another girl having sex other than my girlfriend when shes with me. We are human but we are still animals. Gorillas mate for life, however they still turn their heads if another hot gorilla walks by. Its human nature. I could sit here and stipulate why your husband watches porn for hours but the reality is that you just need to communicate how you feel to him. Who knows, maybe you should kink up your love life a bit too, it does wonders for relationships. Ask him if theres a fantasy he always wanted played out. Hope I helped.
2007-01-05 21:54:04 · answer #2 · answered by opiaxe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i cant remember who the girls were in those shows and i don't know they all looked fine . well what girl wont look good when she is getting on the saddle for a good long ride.
moves half that stuff wont work and what man is going to do that you know what on the face .
i tell you i think we watch some of that stuff just to see if we have crossed the line and dishonored our wives.
why don't you watch it with him and heck how often is he watching this stuff i mean once or twice a year is OK but once a month now that is going to far . you may need to remind him of the Honor part i am thinking he forgot that bit .
2007-01-05 21:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think porn is just for the fantasy. Some women like it and it gets them cranked up, some look and don't like it but it gets them cranked up, some won't look at it at all and some guys can take it or leave it. If a guy looks at it, rest assured it's not for the educational value.
2007-01-05 21:47:59 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am the wife! I watch it with my husband! It makes the moment more...exciting! I don't know what it is but when we watch together it is fun. My husband likes to try the things that they do on the videos. Hey, I like em! It keeps things interesting and I know my husband is not bored of things so it works out. ya know?? Try it, you may really, really enjoy it!!
2007-01-05 21:49:10 · answer #5 · answered by dezzer85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although he wants to try new things that is not why men watch porn, it is because we enjoy watching it it gives us a sexual satisfaction in the time of need.
2007-01-05 21:50:40 · answer #6 · answered by PhillyDude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men are visual creatures... just like women are fantasy creatures... we like to watch beautiful women. While our wives are our first choice, the desire for variety in our married sex lives leads us to porn (not cheating on wives) as a next outlet.
2007-01-05 21:45:48 · answer #7 · answered by Ketel One Up 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break out of the box. Try some new exiting things. Maybe add sex toys to your bedroom they can really be a lot of fun. You need not to be a prune, he wants you to do fun things with him. If he is ready to break out of the box, you should also. Have fun
2007-01-05 21:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by Passion S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm very good question
i believe we *men* like porn for multiple reasons, watch it seeking relieve, for personal pleasure, or even fantasy desire,
it is not that we (men) are "wierd" or "perverted" , it's nature that's how men are
not very clear answer but i do not want to mislead you so i will cut short
2007-01-05 21:50:48 · answer #9 · answered by Evermore 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my wafe gave it up more I'd not watch as much porn.
2007-01-05 22:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋