apparently, while I was out babysitting a little while ago, my mom and brother(17) got into a huge fight, i don't know what happened, no one will tell me and my brother isn't home right now. I was tlaking to my mom and she was all "I'm tired of being peoples mom's, I'm done, I am no longer anyone's mom" do you think she'll come around or what??? I am home right now and am hoping to get out of the house later, my friend(she's older than me) has a car so I am hoping to get out for a few hours later, HELP ME PLEASE I NEED A MOMMY!!!!!(I am 14)
2007-01-05 13:39:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
well, i got home no more than 20 min. ago I don't know when the fight happened
2007-01-05 13:44:11 · update #1
If this just happened recently, give your mom some time to cool off. She's probably just venting. If she is still mad later, discuss it with your dad. He can help you out.
2007-01-05 13:41:47 · answer #1 · answered by fizzybubbles:-) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With just this little info to go on my guess is your Mom needs some serious cooling down time. The thing she needs more than that is your love and your support. I would NOT leave the house for any reason but help your Mom in any way she desires (including cleaning your room and helping with the housework). Parenting can be EXTREMELY frustrating with teens and sometimes too many buttons get pushed and this is one of those times. You can either be a means of helping cool down this situation or escalate it by leaving. Your Mom is probably feeling like a major failure right now and she does not need additional stress or worries.
2007-01-05 21:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a mom, dear. She is human just like you. And like every other human being, she has hopes and dreams, feelings and weaknesses, strengths and weaknesses, wisdom and blind spots. Just like you, she sometimes gets overwhelmed and tired. And sometimes she says things out of frustration that she will probably regret later.
Go hug your mom and tell her you love her. Tell her you think she is a good mom. It will mean the world to her. Sounds like she is just worn out. Maybe you could offer to help her out. Do the dishes or something so she can just lay down and rest a while.
What does all this have to do with you wanting to get out of the house later? Are you worried she will say no because she is already upset? Just curious.
2007-01-05 21:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by lifeisagift 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is just frustrated from fighting with your brother, a lot of moms will go through that, some are just better at keeping it to themselves. I'm sure it was just a heat of the moment kind of thing. If she really meant that, she would have given up on you guys a long time ago! Give her time to calm down.
2007-01-05 21:57:26 · answer #4 · answered by Veridian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry my mom said that all the time, then again her and my dad did divorce and i dont see her that much anymore. im 17. just get out of the house and give her some time to cool down, she seems to be a bit heated. if you can talk to your dad about it. and if your brother has a cell phone, i think you should call him and ask him what happened and tell him what your mom is saying. tell him that you think it would be best if he went home and appologized to your mom. im sure you mom is just feeling stressed out, you can also try to help her around the house with dishes, laundry ect. because she probably feels like she does it all. good luck and dont worry.
2007-01-05 21:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by So in love. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mom just needs a little mental break. It's not easy being at everybody's beck and call 24-7. Give her a few hours to cool off.
2007-01-05 21:42:33 · answer #6 · answered by Tasha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, your mother is just upset right now and venting off. She will cool down. She is probably just stressed out and angry and adults say a lot of things they don't mean when they are upset. Just try to be good and supportive.
2007-01-05 21:54:41 · answer #7 · answered by kisslife14 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People say things a lot of time that they don't mean. Your mom just needs some love and patience right now. Attitude will not solve this one.
2007-01-05 21:42:42 · answer #8 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she is just really mad right now give her time just to relax and cool off without disturbing her for a few hours my mother and brother have done this too (ALOT)
2007-01-05 22:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try to look for your brother on the places you think he is or just go out with your friend and wait until your mom is calmed
2007-01-05 21:43:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋