in the past 6 months i have been looking at guys and about a week
ago i went to the mall and bought a sexuall toy! i dont know if im gay or bi im not sure i need help!!?!?
2007-01-05 13:21:00 · 17 answers · asked by cmp 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The person you have to live with for the rest of your life is yourself, so you should be honest with yourself about who you are sexually attracted to.
Just as if you are right handed and try to write with your left hand, it doesn't feel natural; and trying to like girls when you like guys may not feel natural to you. Just as if your favorite color is blue, you can tell other people you like red but you still know that blue is your favorite; just as liking guys more than girls might be for you.
Gay and Bi are just words to describe who you are attracted to; don't worry about the words, take things slow, and let things fall into place regarding who you are sexually attracted to.
2007-01-05 13:40:04 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay or Bi? probably but what do you mean by looking at guys? Is it in a sexual way or just look and compare? What sex toy is that? Penile enlarger or something. What is it for? Just message me personally by clicking on my avatar. Once I answer a question here I do not usually go back and check on it. Give more details.
2007-01-05 14:04:07 · answer #2 · answered by PAXson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to label yourself as gay or bi or str8. Just explore your passions and interests and seek people/friends who you can confide with. At 16, don't limit your possibilities. Be open-minded to other people. Have a good time. LIfe is suppose to be a blast. You are only 16 once in your lifetime. Once you meet a whole lot of different people and learn to love them as who they are then you will truely be able to love yourself no matter what your sexual orientation is.
2007-01-05 13:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by 6th Finger 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Assuming that you are serious about your question...
Whether you determine if you're gay or not depends upon your own level of acceptance. However, you are not in need of "help" if you're talking about there being something wrong with you.
And ignore the gay bashers who will respond to your question.
2007-01-05 13:25:53 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You really dont need help honestly. Keep exploring relax and enjoy yourself. Dont buy any of the bull **** cures people suggest. Its part of who you are and you really cant change it. So enjoy it and find some peace with yourself.
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2007-01-05 16:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Sam L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you are gay cause when God made the first 2 people of the Universe he made Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve.If he had meant for 2 men to be together that's what he would have done but not being the case read the book of Genesis and it will anwser all the question you little young mind has.The Bible is the book of Life and it can take you down all the right roads that life needs today and forever. Just read and you'll find all your anwsers
2007-01-05 13:32:57 · answer #6 · answered by Sheila R 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
Do what comes natually to you and you do not need help in the way you are asking. Maybe you need help for more enjoyment.You are cool, just stay cool be true to you.
2007-01-05 13:34:57 · answer #7 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay Im gonna help you because you need it now you have been checkin out guys why dont you tell your parents and have them get you help or go have sex with agurl and remember how good it is!
2007-01-06 02:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is normal, sometimes it's just a phase. Everyone go thru it some way or the other but most do not realised. If you wish to discuss more you can email me at yellow_robe@yahoo.com.sg
2007-01-05 13:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by White Wings F 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like you are discovering who you are! What do you need help with? It looks like you are taking charge.
2007-01-05 13:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋