How can I PREVENT getting an erection?

Question

I am a male high school senior. I get aroused very easily, e.g., watching make out scenes in regular movies like The Island, close physical non-sexual contact with any girl. This is a big problem for me at dances because when I slow dance with a girl I like, it is very embarrassing to have a bit of an erection (not the full-on erection, just like halfway). I really want to know how I can prevent getting an erection so that I can slow dance with this girl and not be uncomfortable.

Thanks very much.

Answer 1

There is really not much you can do to stop your d ick from popping a ***** when it wants. I am the same way, was like that in high school and still the same. I have found that jerking off kinda helps. I jerk every night before going to sleep, helps relax and when I wake up with wood I jerk off in the morn, also if I have time during the day. Not sure if you jerk as much as I do but if not then give it a try, see if it helps.

Answer 2

What you are experiencing is quite normal. I'm sure it must be a nerve-wracking and embarrassing experience. But, it can also cause pain if your erection does not go away for a long time. If you want to try something over-the-counter, Pseudophedrine (Sudafed) is a first-line treatment for priapism. Keep in mind, Pseudophedrine only acts for 4-6 hours. Erection is primarily a parasympathetic response. Pseudophedrine is an alpha-agonist that works to activate the sympathetic response (in opposition). Another thing to do is talk about this situation with your girlfriend. Granted, it probably won't get rid of your erection. But, it will help that she understands how you feel. Hope this helps!

Answer 3

Cut it off.

(No, put the knife down...that was a joke.)

In my experience this is pretty much completely impossible...but I'll be curious to see what other suggestions folks come up with. For the most part, since you're not getting full-on erections, I'd probably say just ignore it. It's unlikely the girl will even notice and if you're a gentleman while you're dancing...and she does notice...she'll probably be flattered.

Answer 4

Try wearing snug tight cotton BRIEFS. forget the boxers.

Or wear a jockstrap.

And did you ever figure that maybe the girls love it and find it flattering and cute. ???? Maybe you're making it a big issue , not the girls.

This is not a problem at all. You'll survive and manage. Why, even if you had a full hard-on, I think the girls love it and you have no problem. !!!!!!

Answer 5

Dude, this is nothing to be embarassed about. Be proud of what you got. If I was dancing with a guy and that happened, I would be like ok it's natural nothing to be embarassed about. If you really don't want it to happen, masturbate like other people said. But there are worse problems, I wouldn't be worried about it.

Answer 6

This does not sound like a problem to me. I can think of worse things like not being able to at all. Masterbating before a big event will take the edge off.

Answer 7

Just recite the pledge of allegiance just like Bubble Boy! If that doesn't work think about something so vile and disgusting, all desires fade away. I hope this helps.

Answer 8

i am thirteen but i cant help this happens when i get bored in class and i think well 13 yr old thoughts about girls, well anyways
you can focus on talking to the girl and less on the touching her when you dance

Answer 9

I'm not sure on how you can prevent it. But you can always try wearing another pair or two of underwear maybe. Make it less noticeable. If that dosn't work, duct tape it down. Duct tape it does wonders.

Answer 10

Dude were guys..that happens...You just deal with it..and hope..she doesnt notice..or you never no she could be like..Hey wanna go out in the parking lot?