well i want an answer that is helpful yet mature. and please to really help me, if you're nice leave your email adress because your advive might be the best!!!
2007-01-05 13:15:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
suffocated...like surrounded? Honey, I feel that way every day my family, well they fight and since I am one person who only has one side of the family to depend on it affects me a lot. I've learned that even if your family doesn't like it you should do what makes you happy. (unless it's something that severely endangers your health) Hey if you like to travel but your family wants you to be with them go travel. Just don't cut off from them completely. Do what you think is best. What makes you satisfied with your life and yourself. Just don't take on too many burdens of other people by yourself, don't think that just because you don't have a lot friends or a lot of family that your by yourself there's always someone to depend on, even if that someone is someone that may be the last person you'd expect. Talk to them if they really care about you then they'll think about you before they do whatever they're doing to make you feel like this.
2007-01-05 13:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i feel suffocatied by my family i feel like its the end of the world. Sometimes they can be too much at times. I just sit them down and talk to them. Let them know how I feel and what is going on with me. Most the time they let me be. Just talk to your family and let them know how you feel and that you need some space otherwise problems will occur between you and I don't think they want any problems. Most families are so into to trying to make you happy and trying to do everything for you that don't realize they are suffocating you. Just step up and say something they will understand.
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2007-01-05 21:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by that you mean like held captive type of thing? like a P.O.W camp but the poeple holding you are your""parents""? well i can answer that 1, bloody horrible your addrenalin goes up you dont know what to do, you feel everyone hates you. the only thing to do is break free but i have no one on the otherside to help me get out, i had the same and as soon as i got out a few years ago i started getting friends but i was stupid and came back i left everything to come back to my parents and they r still torturing me. if i do 1 thing wrong they will start an arguement and call the cops then i will go to jail. lovelly family hey... gl ks
2007-01-05 21:24:19 · answer #3 · answered by luckydo6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be honest and talk to them....There is nothing wrong with wanting some space, but be nice at the same time.
2007-01-05 21:18:28 · answer #4 · answered by Rick Jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to them- be nice about it, but let them know that they are being too possessive, bossy, interfering... or whatever they are doing. Let them know that you need to do some things on your own, but still love them
2007-01-05 21:17:50 · answer #5 · answered by from HJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow iam sorry your family member trying to hurt you, you can seek police assistance to help you this is against the law.you can contact me by writing me at annjilena@yahoo.com
2007-01-05 21:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really dont like it, especially because they make it seem like you have to be around them 24/7 when you come home and if you dont spend time with them its like you dont like them or somethig
2007-01-05 21:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Q 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel really bad they do it all the time but I've learned to get them pissed off and they leave me alone
2007-01-05 21:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you talking about? Are they doing it to be mean or what? Choking is nuts anyways.
2007-01-05 21:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by betterwithage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be more specific so people can help.
2007-01-05 21:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋