My friend is SOOOO mean!?

Question

My friend Kim is so rude, heres how it started. I got a really bad cut on my nose and its all red. She is making rude comments on it, and I basically hate her for that. Then I was hanging out with my frind Dianna, and she is a teachers pet, and the teacher asked her to make a new seating chart. So then Dianna told Kim that I made the seating chart, when Kim was mad that she got put next to someone who talks a lot. So now Kim hates me. Well thats okay, cuz she is generally rude to people all the time so i have always hated her. but i really dont want her to keep talking to the boys and making rumors about me cuz then no one will like me. what should i do?

Answer 1

this girl, kim, is obviously not a good friend for you. If Kim was in my school, she would be called a prep or some mean loser who take pleasure in other people's pain. If you're not like that, break free from her friendship and just exist as her aqquaintance. You can find new friends by finding somebody similar to you. Who cares if a mean girl makes rumors about you? If Kim's personality is always like that, then obviously other people have been hurt by her mean personality, and they won't care when Kim spreads rumors about you. Besides, once you start making friends, i mean, REAL friends, they won't care what that mean girl say about you and always exist as your friend.

Answer 2

Bring Dee and Kim together and have Dee tell the truth. Don't bother the teacher with this-it's pretty immature/childish. And as far as Kim is concern (if she's as your described) Do you really want to be friends with such person? My grandfather use to say, "Tell me about your friend, and I'll tell you who you are" meaning you are the company you keep. So, if you don't want others to think you're rude/heartless broad cross her off your list.

Answer 3

ignorance is bliss. if people listen to Kim and hate you they are stupid. be glad that u r not one of those stupid people. and tell Dianna not to spill the beans again or you willl be in big trouble

Answer 4

Oh, difficult question...
I dont think that Kim is really your friend. You should always love your friends 24/7!!

Answer 5

Talk to your friend about how she's been treating you before, and tell her the truth about the seating plan. Tell her how it hurts you to know that she is telling rumours to others, and that she needs to stop. If all fails, then I suggest that you walk away from this friendship with your head held high, and deny all the rumours. If they were your true friends, then they would know enough to know that the rumours aren't true.

Answer 6

Go and find that bich Dianna and ask her not to lie. Go and explain to Kim that the bich, is lying. And you should also tell the teacher about this.

Answer 7

She's your friend but you hate her there's probelm #1. The second is if she's so mean why r u her friend. And stop worrying about what other people think .

Answer 8

this is easy just say '' if you dont stop treating me like dirt i won't be your friend '' or say you know you are mean rude and i'm not your friend ''

you know i had that same ezact prolebm and im not her friend no no no dont call her a friend call her a enimen she is mean and rember like al,ot of people dont do DON"T SEAK TO HER LEVEL i know it might be alittle fun to some people to get revenge well don't

Answer 9

First consult your friend about your feelings and give her another chance. If she is still mean to maybe she isnt the best person to hang out with. Good Luck!!!!!!! : )

Answer 10

i had a friend that talked to boys i liked and spread nasty rumors about me too so i cussed her out and till this day she afraid of me. i think its kinda funny.