I saw a girl I know at a funeral, and she came dressed in a black leather mini-skirt, black fishnet stockings, and shiny black patent ankle strap pumps that had to have 4 inch heels on them. Do you think this was too much of a trashy look?? She kept slipping her feet in and out of her pumps too.
2007-01-05 13:14:22 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
....well....
at least it was all black. heh
2007-01-05 13:15:53 · answer #1 · answered by lilrubberducky 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It really is more disrespectful than trashy. The deceased should be treated with a bit of respect-- when attending a funeral, one should devote their attention to the memories of the lost loved one, not to the possibility of attracting a potential suitor.
At a funeral, one should dress more conservatively. This doesn't mean that you have to hide every square inch of skin, but you really shouldn't flash too much cleavage or too much leg a little above the knee.
I don't see why she didn't try to find something else. She could have still appeared very attractive, and she would have been more comfortable-- seeing as how you said she was slipping in her shoes.
2007-01-05 13:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to say it's trashy, but it's not formal enough for a funeral. Especially with black leather and fishnets. It doesn't give much respect to the person who died.
2007-01-05 13:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the fishnet hose & 4 inch heels were too much. If she had solid black hose and 2-3 inch heels, she would have looked like she had more respect for the deceased and the family. As it was, it seemed more about her.
2007-01-05 13:19:01 · answer #4 · answered by clara0830 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
IMO, it would depend on the person who passed. I've been to all sorts of funerals and even to a few where I was horribly out of place because of my attire. I went to a biker funeral in a deep purple dress with black velvet floral and a black velvet over coat. Everyone else was in biker leather, torn jeans and club colors.
So, it depends on the person that passed.
2007-01-05 13:25:10 · answer #5 · answered by ~*BS~MRA~Girl*~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh my gosh! That's so unbelievable I actually have to laugh! A funeral is not the place to be advertising yourself, it's about the deceased and their family, like a wedding is about the happy couple, or a birthday about the person whose day it actually is. Ridiculous. So trashy. She should not be meeting her next John in such a venue.
2007-01-05 13:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by 1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Trashy, yes....but u knew that. Slipping her feet out is no big deal. Perhaps she was the deceased's mistress, in which case the outfit was appropriate.
2007-01-05 13:21:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah thats trashy
if i were her i would have worn black pants,something kind of plain. the point of a wedding isn't to make a fashion statement and thats pretty disrespectful to keep taking her feet out of her shoes.
2007-01-05 13:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by hcogirl14 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that girl is related to you tell her that that the kind of example she is setting is not a very good idea that you are giving out. you needed or need to confront her about that because i don't even know you and your family and feel bad that the girl was such a self-centered person, she didn't think about the deceased person ( may he/she rest in peace) and the other people around her. and her parents may have been embarrassed to even know that she was their daughter.
2007-01-05 13:25:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, that was inappropriate for a funeral. if she had worn a longer skirt and lost the fishnets she would've been fine, though...
2007-01-05 13:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by kittyluvr0223 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. Disrespectful and trashy.
2007-01-05 13:17:31 · answer #11 · answered by howdigethere 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋