ive been talking to this guy for a few months. he seemed really nice and we became good friends. but suddenly he told me we should just stick to email (we live in different states and met on the internet) he said it was just based on a feeling. i feel really hurt by him because it was so sudden, i thought of him as a really close friend. should i go with the flow and talk to him as a friend or delete him?
2007-01-05 11:59:12 · 13 answers · asked by sweetxbloodx91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
His gf found out.........
2007-01-05 12:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's up what the deal is ask if he's got a girlfriend now that won't let him have friends. Ask him point blank. Tell him you were just planning on being friends anyway. Do what your gut says. You can still be friends but if you don't want to and you don't want to make it noticable then just slack off talking to him until you dont' talk anymore or stop suddenly he was sudden with you. I don't know what to tell you I would get the answers from him though and do what your gut is telling you
2007-01-05 20:07:46 · answer #2 · answered by Guess Who 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definetly recomend still talking to him. A lot of the time friendships are better in different situations. Like over the internet. Others are better in different ways, but I wouldn't give up a friend who you are really close with because of that.
2007-01-05 20:01:52 · answer #3 · answered by Pirates of the Caribbean :D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one thing you must understand is the Internet is a fantasy for alot of people I agree keep it just as freinds ! For all u no he could be married thats why he does not want 2 c u . mmm delete him !
2007-01-05 20:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he did wrong there. He might be saving you from something you haven't seen coming. Deleting him has to be your choice and nobody should help you decide that. Friends are golden but how well do you think you know this faceless person?
2007-01-05 20:03:27 · answer #5 · answered by hottstuf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you enjoy chatting with him why would you want to delete him. You can be just friends with a guy. There is nothing wrong with that.
2007-01-05 20:16:13 · answer #6 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a guy and sometimes we do this, we say things that arent ment, or you gotta understand, guys need some space, some dont like the constant girly clinging, or the constant pressure to have sex or whatever( you might not do this to him, just a exampel) give him time, he'll come around
2007-01-05 20:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a live local in person friend or two. It was all in your imagination.
2007-01-05 20:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i wouldn't but how bad you feel? do you feel hurt enough to delete him? the choice is up to you. ohh and sorry the way he made you feel.
2007-01-05 20:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by Airen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont know who he is really you ve never met him or seen him in person get over it dont be that woman
2007-01-05 20:02:27 · answer #10 · answered by reno_tony_casino 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Delete him.
He's most likely a terrorist.
2007-01-05 20:03:48 · answer #11 · answered by BostonDGB 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋