is it wrong to want to be someone's third wife?
2007-01-05 11:55:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Damnit!
2007-01-05 12:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I hope not; since my wife is my third wife. It was not my choice to be divorced twice, and I'm not such a bad guy, either. My mistake was choosing badly my first two wives. But being the third wife to a man could have its liabilities; especially if you don't know why he lost the first two; check him out (just ask him) about the reasons. You'll hear his side of the story, but you better know him well enough by now to know if he's giving it to you straight.
Men have certain expectations for a third wife based on the previous ones. He may lower his standards even, or set them higher if he hopes to have success in a new marriage. A third wife may find it hard to live you to these expectations, just as much as he may have living up to yours.
But there is certainly nothing wrong with marrying a man to become his third wife. Some people may think it's risky, but it's not wrong.
2007-01-05 21:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Nightwriter21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean from the religious point of well in Islam muslim men are allowed three wives if the circumstances so require,i dont believe Christianity gives such an allowance.My point is if you are a muslim go ahead otherwise it will be considered a sin and morally and ethically wrong.
Best of luck
2007-01-05 20:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by ytee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not WRONG, per se. The only question I would have is, how am I different from two ladies before me? Were BOTH of them bad women?.....I doubt it! If he has married, and divorced two different women, there's a good likelihood that the problem might just be...HIM!....and not ALL them!....Food for thought!!
2007-01-05 20:11:46 · answer #4 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Third wife as in, he has two ex-wives? (Fine)
Third wife as in, he has one ex and one current? (Wrong -- stay away from the married ones)
Third wife as in, he has two current wives? (Wrong -- again, stay away from the married ones)
2007-01-05 20:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by wnk 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It would depend on the reasons for the two divorces...
If both were due to husbands cheating then it would be foolish.
2007-01-05 20:27:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not if he married two psychopath beyotches before and finally found a good woman!!
2007-01-05 20:09:42 · answer #7 · answered by ncmom 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if it makes u happy but just remember what goes around comes around !
2007-01-05 20:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel M 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well its not a good sign on his part i would just be careful thats alot of failed marrages and it could be him not them
2007-01-05 20:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by ashley l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who it is that you are going to marry!
2007-01-05 20:06:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin is wrong wiv that darling
2007-01-05 20:03:43 · answer #11 · answered by Tara 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋