My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two years and we live together. I feel as if he does not like to have sex with me anymore.
In the beginning we would have sex 2 to 3 times a day, and know once a week is a lucky week. I try to get his attention by putting sexy under ware, and I try to get physical with him but it doesn’t seem to affect him he just turns the other way.
I don’t even think that we have kissed in months!
I don’t know what to do because I have a huge sex drive.
2007-01-05 11:51:25 · 16 answers · asked by Just ME 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's bored in the relationship. Living together before marriage can end the romance in a relationship. Good thing you found out now before you tied the knot. I'd move out and find a new man. Go slow next time.
2007-01-05 11:58:28 · answer #1 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey really, answers right in your face. He's either wrapped up in another womans arms, or you have become a total bore. No disrespecting you by the way. You need to step up your game, cause a huge sex drive does not necessarily equal great sex. Re-invent yourself and try one last time to make this work.
2007-01-05 11:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by hottstuf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if there is a problem. Is he taking anykind of meds (blood pressure, etc.) that would diminish his sex drive. Is he working long shifts, with few days off, does he have a lot of stress in his life, and finally, do you think there could be someone else? Talk to him.
2007-01-05 11:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its most likley not you, hes proble just stressed. After youve lived together for a few months they the i have to take care of her idea sets in and he starts stressing. Or he could be stressing about work and bringing that stress home. Dont worry things will get better.
2007-01-05 11:54:50 · answer #4 · answered by jennababe_68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're off to a good start. Leave him little notes around the house, saying what you'd like to do to him. Change your look up, even if for a night - curl or straighten your hair. Buy something new, with him in mind.
2007-01-05 11:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You find out what is causing the distance between the two of you. If you think about it very seriously, you may well know or can discover what it is. What does he do to irritate you and what do you do that irritates him?
2007-01-05 11:55:55 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The bible says that you aren't suppose to have sex, live together or have any other relations until you are married
2007-01-05 12:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Sheila R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just tired? Maybe he is having problems down there? Probably be best just to ask him what he wants from you.
2007-01-05 11:55:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get him a gift card to Victoria Secret
2007-01-05 11:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you shouldn't have sex until your married. Maybe he's trying to become abstinent <<
2007-01-05 11:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by Hiperactivo! 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋