i just moved away from this close friend ive been with awhile.we both promised each other that we would stay in contact and tell each other whats going on, but lately shes always busy doing something else, and when i email her some question and to see whats up, she doesnt ever talk about it, she starts to talk about something else.i think we're losing communication with each other, i dont want that to happen, what should i tell her???
2007-01-05 11:48:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell her how you feel. Tell her that you miss her. She is probably very upset that you moved and may seem more distant because she does not know how to adjust to the situation of you moving. Whatever you do don't give up on her! Keep trying and give her some time.
2007-01-05 11:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by kkolnows 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately this is crappy,but you can talk to her and tell her how you honestly feel tell her you think she is moving on and without you and you hate it. She could also be hurt by your move away and this is her only way to deal with the hurt and missing you. Ask her if she is ok and if there is any thing she wants to talk about that is bugging her and she might break down and tell you that she really misses you alot and doesn't know how to deal with it. I have been through a big move too and have lost contact with almost all of my friends but I have also made new ones too so if she is your true friend you both will find a way to make your friendship last. Best of luck to you and take care!!
2007-01-05 19:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her that you realize she's been busy but you miss talking with her. Then ask when there is a convenient time you can chat.
Remember that all relationships go through different phases of closeness depending on what's happening in each person life.
If she doesn't respond, try not to push it but send her an email or call her once a week just to say hi.
2007-01-05 19:52:59 · answer #3 · answered by DannyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well a friend doesnt always last for ever I would no casue I lost both of my bffs cause I went to a different school and Now we never tlk so my advice to u is just make new friedns and once in a while email or im or even mayb call her
2007-01-05 19:55:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ally. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to give this friendship one more try and send her an e-mail of what's been going on in your life since you left. Have her respond the same and see if your friendship returns to the way it was before you left. Try to suggest to your parents could you have a sleepover with her and have her suggest the same to her parents. If you can't tarnish a friendship after this, I suggest you be honest with her; letting her know that you're feeling as though you're losing communication.
2007-01-05 20:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Dimples 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is wrong if anything and tell her that you feel that you are falling apart and plan a date and time to im eachother for an hr or so to get caught up and our both happpy with it.
2007-01-05 19:52:17 · answer #6 · answered by Gurly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the best thing to do is move on.
2007-01-05 19:50:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should just email her and tell her that you feel like ur relationship is ending b/c of a lack of communication... just see wat she says and take it from there 8 D i hope all things go well!!
2007-01-05 19:56:38 · answer #8 · answered by cadence 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell.. her watsup.. and remind her about the promise you guys have. and try to bring up good memories
2007-01-05 20:17:32 · answer #9 · answered by temari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell her.
2007-01-05 19:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋